Spanking

I absolutely love being spanked. I'm a 30 year old female and a spanking gives me such thrill, the threat of a spanking turns me on so much.

Hi, oh my yes, I have had an interest in spanking since I was young, the reason why, is it releases endorphins, which cause pleasure, the pain is a mild side effect, which quickly fades after the spanking is over. Good luck finding some one to spank you :)

I do not like getting my bare butt paddled--it hurts plenty--It is not flirtacious or forplay etc Once in a great while my wife paddles my bare butt for really outragious conduct with my male friends of which she disapproves for religious reasons----I know I have it coming there is never any argument--I get paddled on my bare butt and it sure hurts---It is only known between the two of us so no mattrer of humiliation or embarrassment---It settles things real fast and then things are once again real good between us---We can not be the only ones but I could never bring it vup with any guys so I think we must be very rare---any comments appreciated thanks

I'll resist temptation and speak only for myself, but the fact that spanking relates exclusively to someone's bottom has everything to do with my personal addiction to it. I was never spanked as a child, but I sure couldn't help wondering how it would feel. And by the time I was 13, I'd begun spanking myself.

The pain for me is no "mild side effect" - it floods my system like a narcotic. I start feeling the sting from a bare bottom spanking and I just want more and more.

"Spanking" might as well be my middle name. I know it's in my DNA - it's gotta be. I would've had to invent it if it hadn't already existed.

Well, I checked "Yes, it's Normal" in that I think it's not TOO abnormal since we now find that it is one of the most popular bedroom activities for couples.

Normal is an arbitrary point on a continuum and one's opinion and experiences marks the spot that they consider Normal or NOT Normal.
I'm not an experienced spanko, but have fantisized about spanking since I was 5 (I remember because I asked my brother to spank me when I was in kindergarten, but he said no; I can only imagine how different my life would be if he did spank me). I was afraid of getting spanked--as it should be for kids--so I was always a good boy--but my friends would tell me about getting spanked, and somehow I felt like I was missing something that everyone else experienced.
Spanking has always been sexual for me--even before I knew anything about sex, and that was back in the day before you could find any variation of spanking you like on the Internet. Even when it was available on the Internet, I still thought that it made me weird, so I never brought it up with a girlfriend, and as a switch I’d like to spank and be spanked by her.
I didn’t tell my wife of 11 years about my erotic spanking interest until about a decade ago, and although I finally got her to spank me once, she’s just not into it and really doesn’t want to play.

I’ve searched spanking up and down the Internet and book marked lots of sites, and these are some of my favorites that relate to your question:

• Finding the Courage to Reveal a Fetish: https://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/fashion/modern-love-a-spanking-fetish-is-not-revealed-easily.html
•Pleasure Spankings and Erotic Pain: https://www.devianceanddesire.com/2016/07/pleasure-spankings-erotic-pain/
• How Many Couples Have Actually Had “Rough Sex”? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202103/how-many-couples-have-actually-had-rough-sex
• What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission (scholarly article from The Journal of Sex Research, 2021): https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2020.1767025

Yes I agree even from an early age I was worried if it was going to happen to me, but used to get excited when I knew my bottom was going to be bare! And that was the start of my erection and then I would cum. It has never changed!! Wonderful better than full sex!!

Spanking is my greatest turn-on--
even if I'd otherwise be indifferent to sex!
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Well, although adult spanking does not interest most people, a Kinsey Report found that about 1 in 20 adults engage in it. For related stats:
https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/education-outreach/what-is-sm/item/364-what-is-sm-how-many-people-engage-in-sm?.html
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/199909/the-pleasure-pain?page=3
So although it's not prominent in adult foreplay, it's also not way out at the fringes.
http://www.takeninhand.com/is.spanking.always.sexual

Whenever spanking is involved, it turns me on--POWERFULLY! In one of the downloads she says that for spankos, spanking is the biggest turn-on and reliable like flipping a switch.
I discovered these great Podcasts that "resonate" & help explain it....
Here are some great "Psychology of Adult Spanking" podcasts to whet your appetite:
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-psychology-adult-spanking/id401275192
She has audio 6 downloads analyzing her 30 years as a spanking fetish counselor that were fascinating and helped me understand what I thought was my twisted mind...
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