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I'm nearly 21 and I just have not had a boyfriend ever. I've had guy friends, hook ups and people who liked me.. but never a boyfriend.
Is it normal? Or am I ugly or something..
It likely has less to do with how you look, and more to do with circumstances. Putting getting a boyfriend to the side, do you feel like you are fulfilling any part of your potential?
I often think if I were to more actively seek a better life for me, I may have a better chance at finding someone who is right for me. I am 21, and have had little things here and there but never the real deal. Mostly I think is because I am not being the best version of myself I can be and I end up a road I didn't expect and don't want to share with anyone else. Does that make sense at all?
Yes it makes sense.. I kind of feel the same way, not doing the things that would actually suit me or make me happy and that way I find a lot of people who don't share anything with me. Though I haven't figured out what would be right for me yet.
Maybe I'll just have to wait until I feel more happy with my life and stuff.. so I can find people who feel happy doing the same sort of things.
Yea.