Sometimes love is aint enough

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i meet this guy on a party 8 months ago, without knowing that our first conversation will last into something like this.
He is an eligible bachelor, a hotelier, man of pride and has great dreams. he was been a very gud man but doesnt want to commit into a something seroius but deep of him he is in love with me. my problem starts as i realized one day that love is aint enough, im loving him more than he is without expectation & limits to the point that i didnt spare something for myself. im the last priority. We had a good time everytime were together, we spent most of quility time rather thatn quantity but whats unfair for me is that aim the last of his priority, 1st his career, 2nd his family, 3rd his freinds & 4th me. i was trying to understand him but 1 day i realized its unfair for a girl waiting for nothing, just he comes to see me if he is free from work & finish with his freinds.
I love him soo much, all i want is some of his time as i need someone i can depend on when im with my darkest day, in times i needed him to lift my up, someone who can cheer me up & makes me smile, someone who can comfort but he is not always there because of his work, work, work & business associates. i was just left in the house & surviving myself. would you think its fair to end up the ralationship & teach him a lesson that not most of time you will focused ur life in career and set aside the person who loves you & takes care of you. i dont think this is a healthy relationship, pls, i need ur advices, thank you.

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  • TareLee
    11 years ago

    I think you can find someone you love as much as u love him but who is able to commit to you. If he doesn't change his ways, he's always going to lose out. And maybe that's ok with him. But it's not with you, and you shouldn't short change yourself.

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    Then it isn't love.

    Never trust a man who can't put family first, career second. A wife/girlfriend is family.

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  • Gabriell
    14 years ago

    He probably thinks you are not good enough for him because you are not like him as a character and don't have the same plans maybe

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  • one_green
    14 years ago

    I think many people have been in the same situation as you find yourself now. It is very sad, because I am sure you love this man with all your heart and put him first in your life. You just want the same from him. And you should. It is fair in a relationship that you are both putting each other first. But that isn't what is happening. It sounds like he likes you....likes being with you....but not the same as you love him. I don't want to say this, but I must: it kind of sounds like he is taking advantage of you, in that you are always there for him and loving him with all your heart, but he isn't giving you the same back.

    This can't be good for you. It can't be good for your self-esteem. Yes, you want more....you want and deserve someone who is there for you 100%%, not any less.

    But it doesn't sound like this man is the one. It will be hard....but my advice is to move on. Not to "teach him a lesson"...but to find someone who is good for you, who loves and treasures you....who puts you FIRST, not last. You deserve that in your life. Please try to gather the strength to break it off with him. You have your whole life ahead of you.

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