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my dad is annoying sometimes, when he is drunk he is singing by really annoying songs, if i wont get home early will yell at my mom, if he saw me w/ boy even a friend or relative i get grounded, he loves his sisters son more than me and my siblings, i think if he had to choose he would chose him. he is yelling at my bro without reason. is it normal that i hate him sometimes?
It could just be hes a selfish drunk or something, but thats what Im trying to find out
How are you approaching the conversation?
Are you yelling at him? Or asking him nicely to talk?
If you feel like crying go to your room, calm down, go talk to him when you're done crying. Talk to him calmly.
He might get even more angry seeing you crying because you're showing weakness and he feels strong and powerful and he thinks he can do anything he wants. Never show weakness to vilent people.
He need's to sober up and start going to Alcoholics Anonymous meetings. Is your mom still in the picture? It would certainly help you, and your siblings if your mother was still in the picture. What would be ideal would be if all the adults in your family could stand together and stage an intervention.
Maybe she could put some eyedrops in his booze? Seriously, I hear about people who are abusive to their kids and spouses, because of alcohol or drug abuse, and I just don't give a damn what happens to them.
Hey, some alcoholic people sometimes just need to be taught a lesson. Even if it's harsh. They could get a good gist of when to know to back off.
During New Years, my dad was drunk, and he hugged me. Now, he usually acts all cheery and happy-go-lucky when he's drunk. He acts... Nice?
Now, I don't mean "all" alcoholic people now. Just some. Everyone's different.