Sometimes i can't stand black women

Thats not all black women . I`M a teenage african american girl in high school.My parents raised me to respect everyone to not be simple minded. I am not loud or have ever been called loud . I wasn`t raised in the ghetto or talk like i`ve was. My mother is a english major and has graduated from college. My father is in the army and hes a has a masters degree, and is in my life ,since birth they raised me together in the same household. My parents are married and had me 2 year after there marriage and im the oldest of two.

I get this alot too, it's very common with many insecure black women who have had issues with racial discrimination when they were younger, so as they get older even IF someone isn't being racist towards them they self-project their own low self-esteem and damaged self onto other people, and they develop a negative attitude to protect their "damaged hidden self" by being overly aggressive.

If I were you just smile and nod when dealing with these kinds of people and walk away, they tend to explode very easily and are not socially intelligent, and if angered enough will either attack you verbally or physically *likely* or get someone else to harass you or attack you verb/physically.

Let them think what they want to think, in the end they are the miserable ones. =)

Yeah, it's normal. Of course theres plenty of friendly black women out there, so try not to generalize!

FYI Black women in the south are AMAZING!! It just sound slike your in the hood or a city, then even the white girls will act like that (if not worse)- it's nothing to do with skin color.

Just tell them if they keep acting that way they'll be chained to your stove cooking flapjacks! Just kidding. Can't say I've noticed black girls to be generally rude. Now, women from Quebec - they're another story...

It's normal, but there's a couple of things you might want to consider which might help you understand.

I'm a white male, much as you are, but I live in a society (Thailand), where white males of European decent are the exception, not the norm.

I'm from England, so there I'm part of the majority ethinc group. Here, howver, I'm not. In fact (and I gotta tell you, it's very uncomfortable), I'm an ethnic minority.

White male ethnic minority.

Strange? Yes, it is.

However, that is how it is, and, as much as I don't like it (I've never much considered anyone's colour before their character before) that's just the way it is.

So, maybe, they look at you from a minority ethnic point of view, towards someone who is from the ethnic majority.

You might not see it, but they are aware of it.

Next time, perhaps spend a bit more time showing your sensitive personality, that you understnad why they migh tfeel a bit anti )initially) to a white guy showing interest in them, and being a bit more forgiving of their worries.

Hey, you must be ok, cos they're not just telling you to go away.

Nice one mate. Good question.

Don't stereotype dumb ass.

Haha I know what u mean... But I'm a teen girl who is part black, and part white. And part Asian, but that's irrelevant in this topic. People have told me that I 'look black'. I feel like sometimes I'm expected to act like the loud, "ghetto", sassy, stereotypical black girl. That's not really me, those people actually make me feel a bit uncomfortable sometimes because I feel like they're judging me.

But anyway, I also have an issue, but with stereotypical "ghetto" black men. They're always staring at me and cat-calling me and stuff, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I've seen men like this do this to other girls with dark skin and latinas, but not as much to white or asian girls. Then they're always laughing at me, an I don't know why! I haven't even done anything funny, or weird or something. I'm just walking. Kinda quickly.

There are many black girls that have a chip on their shoulder... and many people of other races that do also. I know what you are referring to, and heck, you can find it on any reality TV show.. there's always some black girl that flies off the handle and gets in everyone's face. It's the product of growing up in an environment where you feel threatened, so you snarl and growl at everyone. Some of them don't take questions at face value, and they think everything is a threat... It's like if I said "Where is the McDonald's?" and the answer was "Oh so since I'm black I must know where McDonald's is huh?".. Normally I just calmly and politely reply that, I don't live around here and was just hoping to find someone who did... Have a nice day. Soft replies normally put the attitudes to rest. I know what you mean, and thank the lord it's only some people who are on full aggressive defense all the time.

Just remember that there's lots of people who are like that, and lots who aren't. I think that it's more a reaction from you being a stranger, than from you being white.

Black females annoy the shit outta me. No idea why. They just do.

I think it's interesting how black people are kinda 'allowed' to be racist against white people, but if white people are racist against black people, it seems really awful and messed up. Racism is just messed up, no matter what.

Like, I've heard black women say "He's kinda cute for a white guy." If a white man said "She's kinda cute, for a black girl", it'd sound racist, ignorant, and degrading.

But trust me, there're some really nice, cool, black women out there. Maybe the ones you've met didn't know how to act around you. Maybe they liked u ;D

Good for you, loneejay. When people talk about loud stereotypical black people, they're NOT referring to your family. I respect exceptions to the rule, and I think most people do. Nobody gets anywhere
By yelling incoherently and clapping with every syllable (like those girls on tv)

Those types of women are Trashy and annoying. And it's funny that they don't
Understand why people view them
That way.

That's odd...I thought Black women LOVE White men and their dirty drawers!

Trust me, not all black girls are like that. Some of us are normal and respectful.