Something wasn't right...

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Ok so earlier this year I was dating this girl 1 year younger then me and was attracted to her. She was no supermodel, but I thought she was cute. I really wanted to make this relationship work, but it just didn't. there was something missing, I don't know what. When we made out, there was some feeling that just wasn't there. After 2 weeks, it ended. after breaking up, we hooked up again a couple months later and it was the same, no compasion. During a previous relationship it was much more passionate and it felt right. What was wrong with this one? Is this normal? If so, how do you fix this?

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  • ruralfrights
    14 years ago

    Simple: there's simply no chemistry. Period. Regardless of looks.

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  • combatgal856
    14 years ago

    Yeah. I was in a relationship and although he was the best boyfriend I've ever had, he cared, was funny, showed compassion, waited etc. For some reason I just didn't feel anything for him, but now we are good friends.

    I realised I was feeling this way because I had my ex on my mind all the time(by the way it was mre of an open relationship), the next guy I dated all I could think about was my 'ex' still. I guess it was feelings for him that never died. I also seemed to cheat on my boyfriends with him, he has just always been there, I've known him for years and he has never given up on me.

    What I am trying to say is that maybe you have feelings for someone else or there is just not that chemistry between the two of you, or you haven't knnown her long. There are plently of reasons, it might take time to find your one.

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  • DoWhatIWannaDo
    14 years ago

    I understand, I have liked a lot of guys but there was never any thing in it. one time I met a guy who was passionate, we had a great relationship but he fell for another chick and left, I think this is how you are full of passion for one person you like but the other is it just a like. There are some people you are meant to fall madly in love with and others who are just not for you, no matter how cute they are.

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