Some people were born to be losers and others winners

i truly feel some people were born to be losers as soon as they come out the womb. especially me. i'm not a cool guy, there's nothing unique or great about me. i'm just an all around fuck up. i can't even work at a regular low paying job without fucking up. that's sad to say but that's how i truly feel about myself. there has to be people like me in order for there to be people that are the complete opposite of me, which are winners. no i'm not saying all this looking for sympathy because i have finally accepted my role in life. i'm not even suicidal about it or anything. i have just learned to accept it. ima be a loser in life no matter how hard i try because people like me are needed so others may excel in life. who else feels this way?

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  • Short4Words

    It's a self-fulfilling prophecy really. How many times can you fuck up before you deem yourself a complete failure?

    I've fucked up my entire life but in the few moments I really set out to accomplish something, I did. Set your mind on something that you really want.

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  • theseeker

    Yeah, I kind of feel the same way. It seems like I can get so close, yet so far away. I can never put it together because it's always something. Right when I think I'm getting close something fucks me up. You can never get ahead only hope to make progress, but it always seems to be a dead end.

    Maybe you're right. I don't like the idea of "fate", but some seem to have worse luck than others, so maybe some people are just meant to suffer. I don't know.

    What do you do? As tiresome as the disappointment is, the only thing you can do is keep trying to put pieces together because at least there's some hope in that.

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  • Motorhippy

    Take a risk and feel some pain, put some change inside your veins.

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  • peycoca

    Well this will sound cheesy, but you are what you accept to be. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you could work for something, i guess

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  • lavendereverafter

    not true. Leave the house and do things you like run a marathon volunteer ride your bike go to festivals make art go to the pool dance, do karoake cook a delicious meal with friends . just don't sit home in the dark drinking and feeling sorry for yourself. That is what I did for a while after my husband died.

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  • thefuckup

    I understand what you say im in the same category as you.A fuckup.

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