Some of my family doesn’t like my bf

more than half probably... bc he’s rude to me and maybe i share too much honestly. we wanna get married someday tho. but my sister and mom said that they will never like him

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Based on 15 votes (12 yes)
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  • Dating a rude man = marrying a future abusive husband.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Bingo!

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    • what makes u think he’s gonna be abusive ? and in what way

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      • Limited boundaries now, unlimited once you’re married (in his mind) Your already being abused if he’s rude enough for you to mention it. He sounds like an ass as it is.

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        • why limited boundaries now?? shouldn’t it be the opposite once you’re married..

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          • Ellenna

            Nup, you have it the wrong way round

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          • Not for personal abuse. You’ll be with him a lot behind closed doors, by yourselves. People will assume you’re just a bickering couple as he continues to be rude to you. Why any person would stand for that is beyond me.

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  • S12207

    You know that saying love is blind? If you're saying hes rude to you, that probably means he's a dick. With your mom and sister saying they will never like him pretty much sums it up.

    Now if you said he was the sweetest person ever and you couldn't for the life of you understand why your mom and sister don't like him it would be a different story.

    Learn to love yourself and you will see he's not worth your time either.

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    • have you ever been in a relationship w someone for a year?! it’s not that easy to just drop them off..... it takes time and for something rly bad to happen

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      • S12207

        I was in a relationship for 5 years with an asshole that I wish i dumped sooner than I did. I dated here and there and now I have been happy with my fiance now for 4 years, so yes.

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  • lonewolf1253

    If he's rude now, it'll be worse after your married. A lot worse.

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    • why do you think that

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      • lonewolf1253

        Because rude people don't change. And once your married, he'll feel like he can get away with a lot more. Just the way people are in my opinion.

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        • he’s not always mean. he used to be a drug addict and he’s been struggling with it recently... i think he will be better. he really does love me

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          • lonewolf1253

            You know him best. We don't know him at all. Just use your best judgement and good luck.

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  • Electra

    I hope I’ll never be like you..

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  • S12207

    Ya please don't run off and elope in front of Elvis with this guy

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    • in front of elvis ? what

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      • S12207

        Run off to Vegas and elope "Elvis" is usually the minister lol I was kidding but serious about not marrying him.

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        • uh why

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  • Dustyair

    I had bbq meatballs and homemade mashed potatoes for lunch today.

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    • e51pegasi

      Was it tasty & filling?

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      • Dustyair

        It blew me away :)

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