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I feel like some guys just don't get it when I say no. It's like they still think they have a chance and are desperate in hopes that I will change my mind. These guys just don't get it and are such losers that they have to keep pursuing. It's really annoying.
Precisely, when someone pursues me in such a desperately aggressive manner all I can think is if such a piece of shit loser ever caught me he'd never let go and most likely stalk, harass and do God only knows what if I tried to get away. I hate the type of guys who just chase and chase despite being continuously rejected. I remember talking to this one chick who had had a lot of drama with an ex who pursued her til she finally gave up on rejecting his sorry ass. She told me that she thought he must have really liked her to keep on chasing her, I thought she was fucking crazy and felt sorry for her. When someone can't take no for an answer the first thing I think is he doesn't respect me, and that I need to get the fuck away from him.
I like the way you think!
It's normal to be annoyed at these types of people. I've dealt with guys and gals that have no idea what no means. It seems like people these days have some sort of unwarranted sense of entitlement and deal with the word no like spoiled children. Or in some of my cases, they accuse me of being racist, homophobic, transphobic or sexist. Ugh. I'm really starting to dislike other humans.
No should mean no. Tell them in the most straight forward and unemotional way, so it can't be mistaken as "playing hard to get" - if that's even a thing.
I've seen girls being very rude and hurtful to friends of mine before they even had the chance to say anything.
That was confusing to me. But I guess it was because some other douchebag had been obnoxious to them before. In that way those guys make it worse for everyone.
If those guys are a regular occurrence, maybe it's time for a different scene.
Give it some time. When things start to sag, no one will chase after you anymore. Better start collecting cats.
Depending how hot you are, and how thirsty they are; you might want to consider those as a factor.
When you get old and ugly and get less male attention will these guys seem more appealing? I've seen over the hill women who used to be beautiful or cute in their youth become bitter and emotionally and physically desperate to get any man they can. I hope you become one those women and karma slaps you in the ass.