Some "friend" you are!

My so called "best friend" going on for 8 years went down the toilet, literally. This guy, Hahn, and I have been through a lot together but things change for the best, right? Hahn has got a hold of cocaine to the point he buys it from his dealer he's been with for 8 months, Hahn has been doing cocaine for a year. Hahn and I were playing video games (Modern Warfare) until the conversation came up. I use to snort cocaine and I loved it. I was doing cocaine for 7 years and got help. I've been clean for 3 years. Back to the story. Hahn told me he does cocaine because it made him feel good and he has "nothing to worry about" then... I snapped!

(by the time I snapped we were in my kitchen getting a beer and talking)

I punched him.

I shouldn't of because that was the wrong move but it fucking felt great! I told him how stupid he is for doing something like that. I told him it can fuck his life up. I told him to get help! I even told him when I did do cocaine, it almost fucked my life and I got help. Nah, he wasn't having that. He yelled at me telling me how pathetic I am. How I always talk about myself (which I don't because we talk about him or other people), how I'm "so special" because I can get a girlfriend and he can't. He even said...

"Some friend you are."

Then I explained to him I was doing the right thing to help him be clean. I told him I did the right thing and I felt free. I told him Nancy knew I use to snort cocaine and she helped me. I told him he didn't know Nancy because I had a huge crush on her and I was afraid if I told him he would of taken her away from me. I explained everything! When he was leaving my house all mad, my girlfriend walks in. Nancy is my girlfriend and we've been together for a few months.

Now tell me. Did I do the right thing? I did what I had to do. I'm not in the wrong, he's in the wrong, right?

I lost my best friend all because of me. I punched him and actually told the damn truth. I believe it was the drinking and being slightly tipsy that brought the truth out.

I just want to protect myself, my kids, and my girlfriend from somebody I'm not supposed to be.

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Comments ( 15 )
  • dirtybirdy

    Time for Hahn to go solo.

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    • Redcoats

      Ever had Wookie steak? It's a little Chewie.

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      • dirtybirdy

        http://cdn.diply.com/img/b4288639-c2c8-41e0-a5b5-6f6d651526bf.jpg

        I don't eat steak but I ain't mad at cha.

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    • Short4Words

      (put on your shades)

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      • dirtybirdy

        http://top1walls.com/thumbs/cars/birds-cedar-waxwing-1817282-480x320.jpg

        Always.

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        • Short4Words

          You saved it. That might only work on bird fanatics, though.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        i read thatall as a csi miami intro

        *cues music*

        yeaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe you're an alcoholic too? You shouldn't have hit him. Personally I think you're both assholes. I certainly wouldn't ever want a friend like you!

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  • chained_rage

    So... how did he "literally" go down the toilet?

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      hes doin it wrong

      hes sposta dump the cocaine in the terlet when the cops come a knockin

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    • howaminotmyself

      He must have had a hard time finding the sewer access so he used the toilet. I'm assuming the drug dealer chose the location.

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  • Freedom_

    I can understand your frustration with him forming an addiction that you already overcame, especially if he saw the things you went through. However, I would think a friend would feel inclined to help a friend in need get through something they've dealt with themself before... You saying you thought he would steal your gf and hiding her from him suggests that you already had some trust issues with him and perhaps your punch and dismay were the result of some deep seated anger.

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  • answerme

    Let him cool down for a week than calmly talk to him about it

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  • SarahLund

    Oh dear. Only you're friend himself can determine his own outcome. As much as we'd like to help, sometimes we're better off out of it. Especially when it's a really person problem. I've come across one friend who just turns nasty if anyone tries to help him, so screw that for a game of soldiers. Your friend has got himself into this mess. He is the only one who can get himself back out of it. I know you want to help him, but is it worth it if he won't listen?

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  • Rainbowbash

    Eh. Let's just say Hanhs an asshole. Case closed.

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