So recently i've noticed a change, and not a good one.

Okay Ive been feeling different recently, I feel a distance with people that I've never felt before, only in the past few months has it really come on but a couple of my friends have been getting to me and not really acting like friends, one day we'll get along and the next day they're just rude to me I think that's what started this all, so naturally I've tried distancing myself from them but I also feel a loss of confidence or something, I feel like I've lost that drive for connecting with people that I used to have so much I used to love talking to as many people as possible but now I find that I don't, I no longer feel excited by it and as a result I've stopped seeking conversation I don't really reply to texts anymore and I'm starting to feel kind of lonely as a result there are a lot of factors I can think of that may play a part in my feeling this way but it would take a long time to type everything in detail

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  • RoseIsabella

    Was there an incident that sparked all of this?

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    • Honestly I'm not quite sure there are I think a few factors; I smoke a lot of weed this I think may be partially responsible but I think if it had any effect it only exacerbated the issue.
      As well as that one of my close friends started acting quite mean to me which has obviously been irritating and confusing because there was no apparent reason for his change in behaviour.
      Also existentialism and a lack of direction in terms of my career are probably factors as to why I feel this way.

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      • So I guess no there wasn't really one incident it's been a more gradual change but not altogether a comfortable one

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        • RoseIsabella

          So maybe ya'll just grew apart?

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          • Well no not really it was a sudden change in him he just started being blatantly rude I've drifted from friends before it's a natural thing it happens all the time but this was different

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            • RoseIsabella

              Well, at least you know it wasn't your doing. I hope what I've said is of some consolation to you. Be good to yourself.

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  • No one really likes you. Love yourself. Because at the end of the day, YOU are all you really have.

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    • But I do agree about the love yourself part :)

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    • Well that's arguably deniable my family certainly likes me hahaha and I still have my good friends and acquaintances but I never want to interact with them anymore and only a couple have recently started being (for want of a better word) assholes hahaha

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