So my father hates my friends.

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My father is a very rude man. He constantly treats me and my whole family along with my friends who are my family like crap. Today my friend came over who is having troubles at home.He needs somewhere to hang out and calm down since he just tried to off himself a few nights ago. My father walks out and tells him and my other friend with this cruel glare. " Things are going to change , very soon." then walked away. My father is a dick. honestly i hate the man. He has always been so distanced from everyone. He is a royal asshat. He constantly blames everything on me. I love my friends and i have them over alot but have brought up to them that they need to stay home a few days so my parents won't be upset. My mom dosen't mind them over simply because she is glad that i am actually social unlike my brother.She loves my friends and treats them as family. While my dad dosen't. He glares at them. Yells at them. Treats them like shit. My boyfriend lives with us my mom wanted him to because his parents moved away and left him high and dry with no money or a place to stay. thinking since he was 19 he should be able to take care of himself. He had just graduated high school and didn't have a job so of course he wasn't ready.Mind you he is not a lazy person who dosen't want to work.
Now back to the problem. My father has always treated everyone as less then. He only cares about himself. He throws away all of my mothers and I things.
My mother has brought it too attention through yelling at him he has . but doesn't believe her and won't do anything about it. He has practically no emotion. I'm sorry but i don't care if he has a mental disorder. He has caused too much fighting and pain in my life for me to ever LOVE this asshole. I sometimes wish he was dead even! I have never in my life been so pissed as i am when i'm with him. I cannot wait to move out so i can get away from this hell hole he rules with a passive aggressive fist.i hate the man. I quite honestly want nothing to do with salvaging my relationship with him. He has emotionally scarred me to the point i don't want him in my life.
So is it normal that my father treats me and my friends this way? with or without his mental problem?

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Based on 25 votes (13 yes)
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  • FreakyEyes
    12 years ago

    Yes it normal to feel that way for your dad but is still your dad u can't pick your family sadly for me my own mother is a selfish bitch who is crazy and lost my love for that woman and thank god for my voice and stand up to that beast and get away from her now I live with my farther, who loves me very much. Now u have to stand up for u and your mother and tell him things need to change or he going to loose u and your mother if I was your mother I leave his Ass in a heartbeat.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    He sounds like a right jack@ss - but the world is full of them! It's a wonder your mom puts up with this crap, unless she's financially dependent on him. He needs silence and solitude (a cave) to disappear into. Could you get him a garden shed or convert a garage to let him escape from you lot? It's just he's anti-social and has no friends of his own so can't understand why you have to have your friends over. It's a bad situation for you but some men just like to hear the sound of their own voices, so they think they are in control.

    Try not to antagonize him or your mom will have to listen to him complaining for hours. Nod and smile, and humor the grumpy git!

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  • fen
    12 years ago

    I think your feelings are pretty normal. This sounds like an abusive situation. Your dad should not be throwing away your mother's stuff, or acting violent or hostile toward you and your friends.

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