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My partner has been talking to this woman, he's deleted that he's in a relationship on Facebook and he told me that this girl is just telling him that she's broken up with her boyfriend and she wanted him to come over so she could use his phone because she doesn't have a sim card, am I being crazy? Or is there something to worry about here, he told me he barely knows her.
He’s changed his Facebook status to indicate he’s not in a relationship. She has recently ended her relationship. Although he claims to hardly know her, he is the one person she wants to borrow a phone from. Well, he obviously knows her well enough to have her address.
It doesn’t take a genius to work out what’s going on here, but I will help you out anyway. It’s one of 3 scenarios.
Scenario 1 You’re on the way out she’s your replacement, he just hasn’t told you yet.
Scenario 2 He’s planning to have her as his bit on the side for as long as he can get away with it.
Scenario 3 She is the new girlfriend, you have been demoted to the bit on the side for as long as he can get away with it.
All those scenarios do make sense, but he lives with me and honestly I don't even know if he's been going to her house because he keeps saying he's going to see his nana and he's done that 4 times this week
Sounds like you have a genuine reason to be concerned. Watch his behaviour for a bit longer and try to get definitive proof before you confront him though.
Yeah girl, he's cheating. The fact that he deleted his relationship status should've been proof enough. He suddenly doesn't want people to know he's taken or to him the relationship is already over, he just doesn't want to be single so he's fixing himself up with that woman before he tells you. Or he simply wants you around on the side in case things doesn't work with her or just to feed his ego that 2 women wants him and he can have both.
Alway listen to you're gut feeling , that is you're guardian angel , protecting you .
If he is you're boyfriend why did he delete that he was with you ? ?
Right there is a " red flag "
Did you ask him if you two broke up ?
Plus you got to use common since ...
Why would he go to a strangers house to let her use his phone when she can go to her friends or family or even use a phone line to call whoever she needs to call ?
So every time she needs to make a call she's going to ask him ?
Do some Detective: work and look at his history on the computer and on his phone .
Tell him you will go with him and see how he reacts to that ?
100% she is a threat to yalls relationship. That is unless you are open to a open relationship.
"Hey, this chick I barely know has a phone with no SIM card, so instead of getting her ass to the store to fucking buy one, she asked me over so she could use mine. This made total sense to me, so I went." LOL
All phones have sim cards unless purchased online. Sim cards are cheap n easy to get.
Nah its totally normal for platonic friend girls to invite you over to use your phone after a breakup.
Every man is a dog, it just depends on the dog inside the man. But if he went that far he is definitely at least hoping to get some action from another woman that isn't you.