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Just out of curiosity, I want some honest opinions from the guys about a chick like me. Gotten lots of mixed messages, so wanting some honest (hopefully) anonymous thoughts. Age plz to help me gauge the responses. And no, none of the information below will tell you my name or location in real life (sorry internet ;) )

Physically:
I'm 23, female, white, 5' 4" and 115 lb. Dark brown wavy long hair, hazel (mostly green) eyes, average build, kinda small nose. I'm fairly pale and dress average - sometimes t-shirt & jeans, sometimes blouse & heels. Fair features. A little bit of a Texan accent, but minimal.

About me:
I like xbox, but not constantly. I'm a decent graphic artist, a musician, and I've graduated with a degree in Engineering. I'm not afraid to do physical labor, in fact its something of a relief in contrast to the science & math, so don't be surprised to see me get involved in construction work. I don't wear a lot of makeup, just eyeliner and maybe shadow. No acne, I just don't like to deal with makeup. If you tell me I don't understand, i will ask you to explain it to me. Don't tell me I cant do it because I'm a girl - ive surprised many union laborers who said the same (not a feminist, but I know my limits better than anyone, so i will decide if I can or cant). I know some carpentry, electrical, circuitry, machining, and random other stuff.
I tend to be either incredibly shy or incredibly talkative. Sometimes I party, sometimes I don't. Never done drugs, but have drank underage. I like Star Wars, but dont expect me to know a bunch of movie or tv trivia. I WILL NOT put up with racism, chauvanism, or any type of similar behaviors in friends or in relationships. It is in my opinion ignorant and outdated. I'm sometimes sarcastic, but also sometimes a little awkward, like a bad math joke.

In relationships:
I will NOT give it up easily, but trust me it will be worth the wait. I'm not a jealous person - in fact I'be been thought of as uncaring. But my thought is, if a guy is not faithful, I consider it done, period. Been there, done that, if hes going to do it, me hovering over his shoulder isn't going to stop him. I would rather know than constantly worry. I don't expect the guy to pay all the time. I do expect to be a contributing member of the relationship, I do appreciate chivalry but you don't have to shower me with gifts all the time, I will pay for myself or both of us, but i do recognize if someone is bumming. Finally, I may sometimes sound like a hard ass but I do love a romantic.

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

Simply...You sound like a decent, down to earth woman...the kind I'd like.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  :D thanks! i get occasional comments about being unfeminine or feminist or being an uppity musician or uptight, competitive, or blunt, makes me sad :(
  
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Store210

12 years ago

You are exactly the kind of girl i love, you are not focused on one thing alone, you hate rasicm and you are faithfull, you are like a female version of me, only better as a person.
If the world was filed with more like you i would be allot happier

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  :)
  
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Captain_Kegstand

12 years ago

I think that I could only hope to find a girl out in the "real world" that is as cool as you described!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Lol aww thanks! It's impossible to describe yourself in a few paragraphs (and keep pplz attention) but i tried... Tho prob shortened it to all the good stuff :p
  
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  - Captain_Kegstand
    
    12 years ago
    
    lolz of course! Wouldn't wanna list any of the bad stuff!
    
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ready2rumble

12 years ago

I think a lot of guys would love to date you. Maybe you pay too much attention to other people's comments

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

What is it you're asking? Would I date you? Yes.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  What reasons?
  
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NeuroNeptunian

12 years ago

I'm a bisexual female, 20, and you sound like a good catch. The only thing that worries me is that you felt the need to come onto the internet and post this stuff about yourself to gain affirmation that you are a good catch. Have some confidence in yourself, a woman can be beautiful, charming, intelligent, good natured and overall amazing but low self-esteem or self doubt is almost like an A-bomb to all of that.

I don't want to assume that your confidence is in any way tied to the affirmation you get, but something in your post inclines me to believe that you like yourself but you need to hear it from others, and before even asking us our opinions you're telling us that we needn't ask for personal info or a life story... assuming we'd be interested. You obviously have your opinion of yourself solid, and you still feel the need to ask for affirmation... red flag.

But hey, I'm just an observer.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Lol. Ive had some "problematic events" in my past, so maybe that's why you sense a little confidence problm. I think people online can be more honest too... Plus its awkward to just ask som1 on the street XD and I dont know if I'm actually an over-confident brat or just a self-assured woman, yno?
  
  My "sorry internet" comment was just a joke tho. :p if u have a question, I'll answer honestly... Not addresses obviously, but rly it won't hurt me to answer.
  
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  - NeuroNeptunian
    
    12 years ago
    
    No, that's fine. But I do sense the confidence thing. It's best to remember that an event is just that. An event. If you have problematic events on a regular basis THEN maybe you should worry.
    
    Remember, no one is perfect. We all have flaws. I'm an overly-talkative, hypocrite Mormon that can be very dominating and I have tendencies to be a control freak, and an unsophisticated redneck at that. But that's only a small part of who I am. I have more likeable than unlikeable qualities, but that doesn't mean everyone will like me. Not everyone likes strawberries, but ain't nothin' wrong with strawberries, cherie. Most people are willing to overlook flaws if they like the person.
    
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    - Captain_Kegstand
      
      12 years ago
      
      You paint such a good picture of yourself! lolz j/k
      
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robbieforgotpw

9 years ago

Nice novel

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Corleone

12 years ago

You sound like a good person.
However, I'm not sure if I'd date you. Posting a question like this makes you come off as terribly insecure.

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

haha, You sound like me in girl form. ^.^

...except you're probably prettier :I

In my opinion, you sound like a very nice person, comfortable to be around, with lots of promise. :)

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jesse.lawhon

12 years ago

I don't know I haven't seen you in real life, I can't judge you on who you say you are only on who you appear to be. You could be under or over talking yourself, typically with a female they tend to under talk themselves. Also people tend to skip over or summaries things and live out important details.

From what you have written however you seem like a pretty great catch. I however enjoy making racist and mean jokes about my friends' ideas/beliefs/activities/etc, but they do they same to me so... confused a little on your boundary of that is but for me, it might push me away a little, I see it as being to strung up, not able to just relax and take a joke.

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GuessWho

12 years ago

99% Awesome, 1% Seriously Fucked-up

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  That caught my attention lol!
  
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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

It's a shame you need random peoples approval over the internet. I'm not a guy, but you sound fine to me

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Lol I kinda want opinions of just guys who aren't gonna be nice just cause we're friends, i want more honesty than that.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    12 years ago
    
    Cool beans
    
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anti-hero

12 years ago

Totally datable.

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

You sound like someone I would consider having a relationship with when I decide I want one. ALthough, I doubt we'd get along. A lot of people misunderstand my view of equality, and mistake it for chauvanism, you probably would aswell.

As it stands, I wouldn't at the moment. Not the relationship type of person, but you would be someone I consider when the time I want a relationship.

Also, you could of put a picture up on here aswell so people could see what you look like.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Idk, I usually consider chauvanism just outright assholishness. Nothing is black and white, but all I really expect is a "respect my abilities and my ideas like i do yours" thing (men and women alike). My experience with chauvanism is when someone looks down on you... physically, I know I'm not ever going to be as big as some men, and so never going to be able to do everything they can, but I don't want to be excluded solely on my gender if my skill is on par with the other guy. And there will always be someone smarter or more experienced or more talented than me, I admit it. Or someone more established, or well known. Those ppl usually get "priority" in whatever, and I'm fine with that. What i dont like is being told "let the men handle it" if its something I've done and am just as capable of as "the men", they know that, and especially is its just some meanial task. That is what I consider chauvanism. (hope that made sense, tried to keep it short but wanted to explain fully).
  
  As for the pic... What's it worth to ya? ;-D
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    12 years ago
    
    Well, I don't think that, I think if a woman can do it, she should be allowed to do it just as much as a man.
    I believe males have done more, and as a gender the are better, but not as individuals. I say that because of all they have accomplished, even in today's world they invent more and progress technology more than women, etc. People take that and think I'm saying "women are useless" etc, but it isn't. I don't expect to be treated better than anyone just for being male, I just think the male gender should be given gratitude for how they haveprogressed humanity as a whole, if that makes sense? It's understandable if you don't follow the same opinion as that one.
    
    Well, not to sound like an asshole, but I didn't exactly mean that in a "I want to see you" way, I meant it as in that it would be easier for people to get a better idea of you from a picture so they can make the decision on the story way.
    
    Not many people are using the picture section forstories that would benefit from it.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      12 years ago
      
      I see what you mean. I agree, men have done way more than women have, but I also think they have had more of an opportunity to do so. That's not in a "men always put women down" way, but that our society has always encouraged men to succeed in fields of science, philosophy, and engineering, which are the main sources of innovation that progress our society. Credit is due where its due - Einstein, Fibonacci, Freud, etc. - but I think that comparing men & women in that regard is like a 60-year old craftsman to his 28-year old partner. Both have great successes, but one has the longer, more established track record. BUT, that's just a general difference of opinion.
      
      LOL ok, I have a pic of me... I'll also stick up some I made, just for the heck of it.
      
      http://bit.ly/HJyRrJ
      (me)
      
      http://bit.ly/HCxE2Z
      (Halloween)
      
      http://bit.ly/HIAqtI
      (Chevy HHR)
      
      http://bit.ly/HLLD8u
      (A cartoon alter-ego I made for a friend for giggles once)
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        12 years ago
        
        I suppose, but there are differences with parts of the two genders brain. There is more grey matter (I think that's what it's called) in the male brain that make men better at things such as maths and science.
        Even today the best technology, etc are still being made by men. Not saying women aren't doing great, they definetly are, but not as much as male inventers, etc. That's not me saying that every male is better, there is a good chance you may be more intelligent than me, and I could happily admit that if you are.
        I do believe that without men, our species wouldn't of gotten this far with technology, etc. Hopefully you understand my point of view.
        
        You look like an attractive person from what I can see of your picture.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        12 years ago
        
        Well, I don't know all about the science aspect of it, but the quality of interpersonal relationships is all I really am "concerned" about. I understand your view, and its interesting.
        
        Thanks :) its about the most recent pic I have, and prom photos. (i don't like pictures much)
        
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