So go sleep on the couch.

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My wife and I have two young daughters. So we installed a TV in our bedroom in order to enjoy adult entertainment during those times when our girls are up. Cable movies with foul language, racy topics, lesbian or homosexual content. Every now and then I'll watch a porn DVD. My wife does not like me watching porn. She says that she is not comfortable with me getting aroused by the sight of another naked woman. Say what? It's just a stupid porn movie. I have never cheated on her and the sight of some porn whore sucking cock is not going to make go out and pick up women. I suggested to her that she should leave the bedroom for the half hour or so that I watch porn. She says that that would not make any difference. Look, we have a good marriage. After ten years of being together we still love each other deeply. But isn't it normal for a guy to watch porn and enjoy the boner he gets from it? So I beat off from time to time. She is aware of that. What the fuck is the harm in watching porn in the privacy of your own bedroom? In fact, I think that's pretty normal. We both are interested in any feedback.

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  • breathingtree
    8 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with watching porn. You happened to marry a person who has a problem with it; sucks to be you.

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  • modernism
    8 years ago

    I'll just play devil's advocate here. She's probably thinking that due to that fact that you have her, your wife, she should be enough. You should want to go to her and have sex rather than watch porn and masturbate. She wants to be the better option being compared to a pornstar that's not even there.

    It's like, why watch sex on a screen when you could have the actual thing?

    But on the other side, apart of all the psychological changes that porn causes (you can Google it if you'd like), watching porn doesn't equal cheating. Unless you're fixated on a particular pornstar, then you're not building any kind of feelings for another person - you're simply finding a tool to help with masturbation.

    It's normal to watch porn while still in a marriage, though it's also normal for her have problem with it. Try to understand her perspective but still explain that there's no definite harm to your relationship if you continue.

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  • r3cpo
    6 years ago

    tell her its like her foreplay . you need to get warmed up sometimes more than other times . maybe you should go watch it in the den on that tv. till she falls asleep

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    That's a pretty common insecurity I've dealt with with my gfs. It's usually because they would rather me use the labido on them, but then refuse to put out whenever I ask lol. Porn never has a headache, or is too tired, or is on its period. Porn can't give u stds and get accidentally preggers. It's just the "you think she is prettier than me" or "you'd rather be with a woman like THAT?!" It's like God took a photo copier when placing insecurities in his creations heads and just left this one on for a good chunk of the female gender. Jealousy over pixels on a screen. Too much.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago

    Porn in the bedroom should be consensual and both should take pleasure on it and from it.
    In that case I guess tolerance should work. All women do lots of things daily that irritates a men and we say nothing, pretend not to see it or even listen to it.
    Once I had a girlfriend that did not enjoy porn as well so I changed the channel to football: )
    Do it and you might be lucky with porn next time.

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    • peterr2
      8 years ago

      We could make our own porn. You sucking my big dick and me cumming in your mouth would be great on the big screen.

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      • Mr-Myrtos
        8 years ago

        Dear Peter. Sorry but the casting is over. I was looking for MFM again and not MMF.
        Don't loose next casting, pay attention to posts.
        Mail me.
        :)

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    I was in a relationship where the GF really despised porn on some philisophical level, so I totally gave it up while I was with her. She felt that watching it was supporting the porn industry and therefore contributing to the oppression of women.

    The condition was of course that we'd at least engage in creating our own pornographic couplings, which I think is way better than watching porn any day.

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