Smoking fetish?

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I am and have always been non-smoker. I even go to great lengths to distance myself from smokers, since the smell bothers me. I would be very reluctant to enter a relationship with a smoker. The funny thing is that I have a huge smoking fetish. A video of a clothed girl with a cigarette (provided she was actually taking proper drags from it) would turn me on more than a video of a naked girl with no cigarette. Also, the longer the smoke is held in the better.
The magic only works if the female in question is decent looking though, otherwise it is just as disgusting to me as watching a man smoke.
Can anyone here relate to this?

I find it attractive too. 78
Now that you mention it, I do find the idea tickles my fancy. 11
Woaaah! That's totally rad man! 9
This perfectly describes my feeling on the subject. 63
I am neither aroused nor turned-off by it. 44
Hell no you disgusting freak! 36
Other. 6
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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    In a sexual setting, it is something of a turn on for me. Since I tend to have an emotional connection to people I sexualize, I would also end up worrying about their health though. Swings and roundabouts.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I would be horrified if my hypothetical girlfriend took up smoking for the reason you stated.
      Also, I've never heard of a playground fetish, but whatever floats your boat, as long as it is not connected to pedophilia.

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      • dom180
        10 years ago

        Haha.

        Smoking is becoming more and more taboo in our society. It's seen less and less and "cool" and more and more as disgusting, or as the symptom of an emotional or societal problem. I think seeing it that way is going a bit too far, but that's the taboo and taboos breed fetishes.

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  • Shrunk
    10 years ago

    Im a woman and I think it looks cool for men, as does drinking, and I know people think that means I'm brainwashed by media or something, as they glamorize what is really unhealthy, but I don't know why, the alcoholic type characters are most attractive to me, and add smoking they just look really cool. I don't know about real life, I mean I wouldn't be attracted to party drunk types but it a man smokes or drinks and keeps fairly under control, that's fine with me.

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  • delling
    10 years ago

    I can understand why it's sexy, but since I smoke for mental health issues, I don't see it as being "forbidden" enough to form a fetish around it. I'm guessing this is a total non-smoker thing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I've never heard of tobacco being used for medical purposes since back in the 60's when it was smoked to supposedly treat laryngitis. Wouldn't there be safer, cheaper alternatives nowadays for your mental health problems?
      Also, I have heard of smokers with the same fetish, but you're probably right in thinking that most people who have it do not smoke themselves.

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  • Karmasbitch
    10 years ago

    Meh, it's quite normal in the fetish world, I'd say.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    As someone who has been trying to quit smoking for over 30 years, I find absolutely nothing sexy, attractive or enticing about smoking, smokers or cigarettes. I have spent literally tens of thousands of dollars on everything from hypnosis to aversion therapy, pills, patches and gum. Nothing works.
    They are filthy, dirty, stinky, poisonous things that the world would have been better off without (at least me!).

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    • jc25
      10 years ago

      Not even e-cigs?

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago

        "I can't get no satisfaction" with the e-cigs, unfortunately.
        Anyway, I've run out and can't get any more down here.

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        • jc25
          10 years ago

          Have you seen a doctor?

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          • thegypsysailor
            10 years ago

            Would you believe dozens, over the last 30 odd years. MD's, shrinks, specialists and quacks; the whole deal.
            Actually, I'm 14 days into another effort right now and hoping this time will be the charm. But I'll tell you the truth, the thought that I can never again have another cigarette in my lifetime is so frightening that I almost wish I would get a terminal disease so I could go back to smoking again, guilt free.
            "Ahhhhhhh" he yells as he runs down the hall, arms flailing and pulling out his hair in big tufts.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Sorry to hear of your struggle. I always feel sad when I see young people lighting up for the first time, since I know it will very likely condemn them to a life of addiction as it has done to you. The fact that alternative nicotine supplies have failed suggests that your problem goes beyond mere chemical dependance. Have you considered trying e-cigarettes?

      The fact that I find smoking sexually attractive in females does not mean that I condone or approve of it. It was the oddness of my fetish that compelled me to write this post in the first place.

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  • squirrelgirl
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't say I have a fetish for it, but if I am already attracted to, say, a fictional character and they happen to smoke cigarettes/cigars, it only enhances my attraction to them. I feel a similar way about characters who wear glasses.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I am quite not sure what it is about smoking, but there is something very alluring and erotic about it.

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    • tripw7
      10 years ago

      Agree with you completely. It is alluring and I think that is the problem.
      Now that I have not smoked for 30 years. It is comforting to know that others now also know it is not a good thing to do.

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  • mixwell
    10 years ago

    I dated a chick a long time ago who found it sexy when I smoked. surprisingly most girls ive been with dont smoke and hate the smell but they dated me so who knows.

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