Single mom cosleeping with son, iin?

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So i just found out that, my boyfriend, who's a gigantic mamas boy, lied to me about how old he was when he was younger and cosleeping with his mother.

What used to be 7 or 8 years old.
He's now claiming 12 years old. Which really freaks me out.
It wouldnt freak me out half as much if she wasn't so possessive and controlling towards him. Also because she can be very jealous of me, saying "i thought i was your cutie" to him, whenever he showed me affection. or getting mad because she wanted to take him out for dinner, just the two of them. (She's a very single 50 year old)

She has also compared me to women she sees on tv, encouraging her son to check them out while im standing right there. When he refused and said i was more beautiful then the women on tv she said that HE was the one with the problem.
anyways,
when i was asking my boyfriend why he was so ashamed with cosleeping with her till 12 -- or atleast thats the oldest age he'll admit to, he said he was embaressed because he thought it was "immoral"

... immoral?
.... immoral ?!

so i took all of my stuff home and am refusing to go back there until i figure out what normal really is.
whatdoyouthinK?

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  • sillymerchantgirl
    12 years ago

    By the way we are 19, and I'm just extremely creeped out.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    incest. that's creepy, and happens WAAY more than you think.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Stay back from his mother, I can't see any benefit to you being in her company anyway.

    I have an idiot for a mother in law and about 9 years ago I decided I wasn't going to waste 5 minutes of my life in her toxic company anymore. Took me years of doing the 'right thing' before I wised up!

    Good luck with him though.

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  • oliveyou13
    12 years ago

    It's not his fault! If he's embarrassed, he probably doesn't think it's normal either! His mother is definitely the crazy one! And remember, "mama's boys" are usually how they are because of possessive mothers!

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    Firstly, obviously he'd be embarrassed by it, and so clearly he wouldn't feel comfortable about telling you about it. Secondly, if his mom is getting weird, that isn't exactly your bfs fault. You need to tell him to tell her to back off. She is clearly one of those really possessive, over-protective mothers, and no woman can be good enough for her son. She will probably always be like this, maybe move away from the area when you are both old enough so you don't have to put up with her any more. She is NOT NORMAL!!

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Wow. I don't see this is as normal at all. I think if you want to pursue this relationship then you're going to have to put up with a lot of weirdness.

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