Single forever

My entire serious dating history is 3 guys I fell for that had a serious alcohol or drug dependency or serious psychological problem. I fell for this new guy, but once I called for advice and he answered drunk. He said some very telling things and I'm going to break it off. I think I should be single forever, because getting addicted to a relationship or a person is just as dangerous as drugs. Love equals heroin.

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Based on 78 votes (37 yes)
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  • OliverSquare

    Love doesn't exist. There are connections and hormones. Fuck and get fucked that is all you can do.

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  • I think your post is mistitled. You should just be grateful you've found some people to be with (if only shortly). I am 23, and never had a girlfriend, or kissed anyone. I do hope you find someone better :)

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  • Fuhad

    Love is a beautiful thing and can bring two people together in a bond that can last an eternity.

    Of course this coming from a single guy holds no real weight whatsoever.

    I dream of living somewhere with the sea on one side, the mountains on the other and open countryside in between.

    Life on the other hand sometimes deals you a crappy hand, and you as the player have to know which cards to fold on and which cards to bet on.

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  • lina222444

    stop trying to ppush yourself into relationships. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be! Love yourself first then the right one will come along.

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  • hermione

    Take a step back and give yourself time, you are stuck in a pattern that you have to break, why not get a friend's opinion on your next potential bf.

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  • nothing2

    yeah women that are f-ed are great. i forget what that means. i think it means you think you're f-ed up. maybe you are'nt as much as you think. those people are easier likely.

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  • You've discovered that you don't like drug or alcohol dependent guys. Thats a real good lesson to learn early on. So apply that in future dating. And wanting love in your life is healthy and normal and definitely not like drugs/heroin. But think about whether you want it (love) so bad that you are just being needy and expecting it anywhere. If thats the case, back off, get a grip, and learn to love yourself.

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  • ven067

    well I don't believe in soual mates or really true true love for that matter.
    But I'm sure everyone has someone out there that matches them best. With a world full of people in every part of the country I'm sure someone out there will love and care for you

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  • mtziongirl

    Well if your smart youll quit gettin guys out of the ghetto.
    Nah just kidding. Go some place where drugs dont affect..

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  • combatgal856

    I know what you mean. When a relationship goes wrong it kills. I've learnt from my previous relationships and tried to see the positive reason why we broke up in the first place. After a while I realise I was better off without them.

    Don't give up, just don't let boyfriends make you feel like there is no hope

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  • MapleSyrup

    I agree with Violent 100%% couldnt have said it better myself.

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  • AWWWWW MAN!!! Do I understand where you are coming from this sounds just like me. I hate being all gaga for a guy and act like i'm so in love in with him. I have never experienced true love, because I have never had a man fall in love with me, and I feel to be truely in love you must both be in tune with each other, and basically be as one. It's hard to find someone in your 20's, especially now a days, when we live in the most immature generation ever, and where basically marriage is obsolete. Don't worry though you will find someone who feels just like you do when you least expect it, and so will I.

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  • HeartOfDarkness

    i hope you find someone :O

    i don't really know what to say, but what can i say?? i'm just thirteen and never "felt" love... i guess...

    ofc theres hot girls in school but, i think they see me as a geek.
    to be honest i would actually say i look pretty handsome. but as im kinda into World of warcraft (no i dont got "a lvl 70" and i dont buy collectors edition or stands outside to wait for the burning crusade in the middle of the night) but i can change.
    if i met a girl who asked me to change my hairstyle i wud gladly do it.

    okay now i got kinda carried away with my own problems.. sry :O

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