Single for ___years from birth?

I'm 21 years old and I don't have/had a girlfriend
how about you?

if you are single and you don't had any gf/bf in the past, whats your current age?

if you have/had a gf/bf, in which age did you find your gf/bf?

had a bf 6
he/she is acting like a friend but... 1
had a gf 9
crushes only 7
have a gf 5
have a bf 3
single till now 7
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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I had my first official relationship when I was 26. I'm still with him and I'm 32 now.

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    Been single my entire life and intend to stay that way. I'm over 50 and that's all you're getting. I have a celebrity crush though.

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  • xeus

    Same here. 21 & single.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm 51 years old now, and I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 19 years old.

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  • Wryladradofft

    20 and I've always been single

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  • raisinbran

    21 first long term gf

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  • thepuppet

    Had my first at 16 for a couple years. I'm an adult now. Probably won't date again for a long time.

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  • NickyNeopolitan

    I've only had 2 bfs my whole life (I'm 27)
    My first one lasted for a little over a yr.
    My second one lasted for about 5 years consist. We broke up but still were seeing each other. Just without the title.

    I do be with guys, but the whole relationship thing... isnt my thing. I feel the title actually does change the chemistry between people.

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  • darefu

    First crush, around 10. First sexual I managed to hold out to the ripe old age of 13 or 14. Various serious and not so serious flings then married at 22. That didn't work, so now I just share my life with my best friend.

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  • YE

    At 17 in Highschool. Our school's entertainment and drama club had gone to perform at a sister school, we met there and then we started exchanging letters as the school term progressed.

    I had my first kiss with her during the following school holiday. I know.. romantic, isn't it? But guess what, I lost my interest in her that same holiday. And that was the beginning.

    After that short-lived relationship, pretty much all the times I've tried to get myself back in the game of dating, I end up losing interest in the person I'm dating within a few weeks or days, so I let them down easy. I just feel burdened by having to feign interest in someone.

    Currently, I'm in my mid thirties, i haven't dated in a long time and I don't see myself dating anyone in the near future.

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  • Chap

    I had my first girlfriend at 13 or 14 in November of that year [won't say what year, will reveal my age]

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    • is that a problem?

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      • Chap

        I just don't want people to known; breach of privacy

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Dated a few times in high school to see what it was like, wasn't impressed & haven't done it since.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    First relationship I had was when I was about 5 years old in preschool. Her name was Brittany and she had long blonde hair. Id always get behind her in line she let me play with her hair. Id constantly get introuble because the teachers didnt want me touching her hair. She ended up coming over my house a few times to jump on the trampoline.

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    • dude_Jones

      A nice innocent friendship like that is a good way to establish early faith in the feminine gender. Problem is that many of the girls have acquired serious baggage by age 13. Anyway, it's nice to remember childhood friendships. I guess the qualities that lead to happiness are also those that are most easily destroyed.

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  • LloydAsher

    My first one was when I was 21 after the navy, it was fine, she broke up with me because she said she didnt love me anymore. It sucked but I had a gut feeling that was coming up. Navy life in japan and california really didnt suit having a girlfriend because in the first instance it's japan and you are only getting the niche of japanese women that knows english and wants an american. On the other hand when I was stationed in San Diego within 10 miles of the marine bootcamp so that kinda sucked away any prospective mates since that was tinder slut magnet.

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  • SwickDinging

    I started early. Pretty much always had a "serious" boyfriend throughout high school. When I got to Uni I wanted to be single but ended up innanither relationship at 19 until I was 21.

    None of it really matters now. I'm happily married and I didn't meet him until I was in my mid 20s. The other stuff before that was fairly meaningless.

    There's not much point in being in a relationship unless it's amazing.

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  • Contrivance

    I didnt have my first gf until 22. Before which it was all innocent crushes or casual calls and chatting

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  • ellnell

    I was 18

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Well I had my first “relationship” at the tender age of 13 and it was a fucking train wreck, we’re talking danger to themself and others.

    I had another at 18 with someone who was at least mentally stable but it certainly wasn’t “love”.

    Functional romantic love does exist but it’s less common than people act like it is. Especially at 21 it’s far more important to focus on improving yourself as a person, being single is an opportunity to find out what makes YOU happy without having to factor anyone else into the equation.

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  • Somenormie

    I found my relationship at my current age 18, it is around 3 months since my girlfriend and I had matched up.

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  • bbrown95

    I've had two past relationships, one as a teen in high school and the other from age 19 to almost 21. I've been single for over 5 years now and plan to stay that way.

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  • ibrokemyds

    I had my first relationship at 16 and we dated for around 4 months.

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