Single but not liking anyone

I have been single for over a year now and I hate being alone. The thing is that I don't like anyone right now. Even though I know this and I know that I should be happy, it doesn't stop me from wanting to cry everytime I think about it. It seems like all of my friends don't care either. I have confined to them that I don't think I'm pretty and all they do is sit there in slience. Not even trying to comfort me or reassure me. Am I normal?

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Based on 120 votes (104 yes)
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  • I would like to know how old you are too . (: It's normal to be single and not like anyone, everything is not all about guys. Sometimes it's just not time for a relationship and no one you have chemistry with is around to start one with.

    I used to tell my friends I thought I was ugly too, the reason they probably sit in silence is because they just don't know what to say. Just remember everyone has flaws AND good qualities. Try to enhance the things that are good about you and and flaws you have can be an easy fix if you just buy the right product or give yourself a little attitude adjustment.

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  • jazzyone

    Wow, you need a HUGE dose of self-esteem! Oh, yea... and some real friends.

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  • littleone

    Get out of your head and live a little, stop focusing on boys. "Life happens when you are making other plans"

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  • IslandFor2

    It is normal. And please don't think you are not "pretty". Try to understand the phrase "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Everyone is beautiful in their own way, as cliche as that sounds. And if you don't like anyone, no problem. Maybe it's not time yet. Wait it out a little longer :) Something bright is bound to happen.

    Take care

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  • tribechick90

    Don't worry, I know this sounds cliche but everyone is beautiful in their own way, just get on the bus or walk down the street and I doubt you'll see anybody truly ugly. beauty is subjective, so one day an amazing person will love you for what makes you unique and will think you're the best thing since sliced bread. until then, you need to stop looking to boys and your friends for confirmation of your worth. if you're having self esteem issues just be reassured that everyone is more critical of themselves than others, the girl you think is gorgeous might hate her nose, or thighs, and she might look at you and wish she had your smile etc or slim figure. look in the mirror every day and tell yourself you're gorgeous, you need to believe it before anyone else will, and feeling good will make you look better to others. smile more, shower regularly, use a nicely scented fruity body wash or shampoo and moisturise your whole body, always wear clothes that make you feel good, and eat well and exercise. be kind, help others (charity, helping your mum with chores etc) so you're not focusing on yourself so much. get rid of anyone from your life that puts you down in any way as you don't need them. If you do those things and also concentrate on yourself and things you love to do like sports, bike rides, shopping, going for coffee with friends etc then you'll feel better in no time. the right person always comes along when you stop trying so hard and have fun being yourself, and your relationship will be healthier because you won't be relying on him for reassurance. remember looks are superficial, the right person won't be, and being yourself is good enough.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    Seriously it is so great being single!!!!

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  • sheeptrafficjam

    If you don't like anyone then there is nothing you can do about it. Don't blame yourself for not liking anyone, you can't force a relationship and expect it to work. Just stay positive and you'll find someone who's right for you.

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  • mtnw

    can i ask how old you are? my response to you would be age related.

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