Sick of people asking about weight loss
I got sick a few months ago(mono) and lost quite a bit of weight (15 lbs or more). I thought I was pretty obviously ill, but a lot of people I know keep asking how I lost weight, assuming I was dieting and telling me I look "great".
I wasn't overweight before and frankly I look and feel best somewhat "zaftig". Im normally about 135-140 and 5'6.
Now I feel like everyone thinks I was fat, or at least I should be skinny which is not natural for me. I think its just as rude as pointing out someone who has gained weight. I didn't announce a diet or anything and I was really sick!
Do you think its rude to ask people about their weight either way especially if they are just a casual acquaintance?