Sick of everything being a debate

It's like everything nowadays has to be a debate, and people shoving their opinions in your face. I don't like conflict and I'm not competitive, so whenever someone challenges me, I run away. Debating over stupid things like gossip or recollecting something, I can't stand it.

Like my family arguing with me over people we used to know...
Family - "That woman was always so rude"
Me - "Well she got her karma when her husband died"
Family - "No, she got her karma when her daughter got pregnant at 16, give me a break"

EVERYTHING DOESN'T HAVE TO BE A FUCKING DEBATE. I'M SO FUCKING SICK OF IT. Why the fuck can't I talk to anyone these days without them fucking shutting down everything I say? Jesus fucking christ. No one can hold a fucking conversation anymore and just simply talk about whatever -- everything is a fucking competition anymore.

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  • up_my_ass_boiz

    tough - that's just how the world is. learning how to choose your fights wisely is a part of being a happy, successful, functioning person. People argue because it's stimulating and, for some of them, fun.

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    • Where's the respect for people who don't find arguing 'fun' and 'stimulating'? It makes me feel beat down to the point of fucking worthlessness. These people are egotistical power-hungry assholes.

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      • Tinybird

        Don't listen to him, he replied to a comment putting me down just for my appearance. He obviously has nothing of value to say.

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  • Tinybird

    I'm in the same boat.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    ever seen 'thank you for smoking'?

    great movie and the premise is that the world thinks if youre good enough at arguin youre always right

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    • DrPissenschitz

      I don't remember which agency it is, I think the CIA, but there's some institution that conducts interrogation training and there are people who are so good at manipulating others that they convince the target themselves that they're guilty of a crime they never actually committed. So yeah, if you're good at debating or arguing, it might just be a sign that you're good at manipulating people, which seems a little sociopathic

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