Should you have sex with someone who doesn't respect you?

If someone admits that they don't want a relationship with you because they don't respect you because you are not successful and they think you are only useful for casual sex since you don't contribute anything other than looks (and they are right).

yes 5
no 16
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Comments ( 13 )
  • shuggy-chan

    Only if you have no self respect or self worth would it be normal

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Don't give them the satisfaction, in fact you should tell them to go fuck themselves.

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  • nikkiclaire

    It's normal for beautiful people like us to be seen as only sex objects 😂😂

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    • Beauty doesn't last :(

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  • Not unless you also want to get raped.

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    • nikkiclaire

      If they chose to have sex it wouldn't be rape tho'.

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      • It can be. If they thought the person was going to be gentle and kind, but then they break their trust and hurt and terrify them, is that not rape?

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        • This recently happened to me! Someone who first pretended to like me got me drunk, had sex, then insulted me and admitted he didn't respect me. Without the alcohol, I wouldn't have had sex with them. But it's not really rape?

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          • Boojum

            In a lot of places intoxicated people are considered incapable of giving consent. If you were sober enough to give consent and did so, then it's not rape. Remorse after the fact does not equal rape.

            The guy sounds like a dickhead and someone you should avoid. The best thing you can do is try to learn from your experience, write it off as a deeply unpleasant experience lots of people have, and do your best to avoid getting into similar situations in the future. Alcohol consumption is not mandatory.

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          • That’s sex without consent. And his attitude definitely shows he did not respect you or your body.
            I had oral sex (I don’t really think of that as sex though but still) with another woman once, but we were both drunk and I asked her first and was respectful of her body. What he did to you is not right, even if you were drunk. If the person doesn’t verbally say yes then it is rape.

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        • nikkiclaire

          Not if they don't say no or if they say no and the other person stops.

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          • You’re mostly right, but sometimes people can be so terrified they don’t have the ability to say no.
            An example would be, a woman was jumped on the street and forced to have sex but didn’t verbally say no, is that not rape?

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            • nikkiclaire

              The keywords there are "jumped" and "forced".

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