Should you be sexy in the texts?

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I feel like im not an exciting texter when I talk to a guy I like or anyone.
I am not comfortable sexting because it feels stupid and awkward plus im really inexperienced so I have no idea what you're supposed to say even.
I am ready to not be scared of intimacy as much and with the guy im into who also likes me.
I dont want to sexty but I wonder how men are used to being spoken to by a woman they're heading towards something romantic with.
Do you give a lot of compliments ? And otherwise what ?I keep a pretty normal tone and text the same way I do with anyone else so I need to be more fun exciting. I just need to know what type of things one says. I am not good at being personal and intimate so I need to understand how one reaches that level.

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  • SwickDinging
    2 years ago

    I think this is more common that people admit.

    I'm married now but I never wanted to sext/ phone sex etc with someone I hadn't slept with before. It completely ruins it for me. The first time you have sex with someone it is exciting and unknown. If you've already gotten into the sex talk stuff before you've been physical then that magic gets lost.

    It's kind of like a kid finding where their mum hid their Christmas present. The sexting is you opening the present on Christmas eve and finding out it's a cool new toy and playing with it quietly in the dark. The actual sex act is Christmas morning when you have to open your present in front of your mum and pretend to be surprised and act like it's the first time you're seeing it.

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    I never was keen about sexting.

    I just don't wanna get into some deep shit just like when my former friend tried to frame me even though she first sent provocative photos of herself and blamed the whole situation on me.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    Try having intelligent conversations about subject of mutual interest. The brain is the biggest sex organ... and you don't have to flash your assets to be attractive to someone who can think with the head on top of their shoulders.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      What about if you have no mutual interests really.
      I know it doesnt have to matter because many successful couples dont but what to bring up then.

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      • olderdude-xx
        2 years ago

        I have never met a successful long term couple that did not have mutual interest.

        Without a mutual interest lust and games runs out in a few years... If not sooner.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    I never liked sexting unless ive already fucked the girl a few times and know her well. As a dude its too easy to get too horny and get too perverted on texts and ruin the whole thing

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