Should the girl or the guy propose?

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Should a girl ask the guy to marry her, or should the guy ask the girl to marry him?

The guy should propose to the girl 96
The girl should propose to the guy 11
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  • RachelleWall
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't think it should matter honestly. It's just an antiquated gender role thing that we don't need.

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    • Psoriano
      10 years ago

      Not really.

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    • Legion
      10 years ago

      i agree. should it really matter who proposes first?

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    The girl could propose to the guy, the guy could propose to the girl, I'm in no position to say what either one should do! Lol.

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    • Psoriano
      10 years ago

      STFU, you know that's not really like that.

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      • driedroses
        10 years ago

        Lmao what? Yes it is...

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    Me as a girl I wish the guy proposed :p

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Who cares who's gonna propose? They're gonna break up anyway sooner or later...

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    • Unimportant
      10 years ago | pl

      Well, aren't you mister glass half full :-D

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    • ROMEODEMONTAGUES10000thACCOUNT
      10 years ago

      Yer a gay pedo!!! Omg!!!

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    While I think this is dependent on the relationship itself, I think traditionally, in my culture its more predominantly the male. Although it sometimes puzzles me when women wait 4 years plus for the man to propose, I feel like saying "well if you want to marry him so bad why don't you propose?"
    I suppose in some situations the woman needs to hear it from him so she knows he's committed to the idea long term.

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    In our feminist society, where both genders are equal, the MAN should propose, obviously.

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  • Ilovewinter12
    10 years ago

    I don't think it matters, but so far, I haven't heard of a story of a girl proposing to a guy. :/

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I feel if you're both interested in each other then it shouldn't matter.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    It doesn't matter.

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    • Psoriano
      10 years ago

      Yes it does.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Who proposes anymore?

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    • Shelbs
      10 years ago

      I Know Right? Most people just assume they're married at some point in time.

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  • Evenios
    10 years ago

    i say the other way around because it would be awesome to have a few lovely women come up to me and ask "OH PLEASE will you marry me"

    Not going to happen but..still.

    it also depends on your culture in Brazil rarely do they have the big romantic "will you marry me guy on one knee" thing. a lot of times the couple sits down and talks about it to decide or not. I think either way is fine though if you are a bit old fashioned the guy should ask yes. but in this day and age it really doesnt matter.

    nothing wrong with mixing it up a bit.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    I always wondered what it would be like for a woman to propose to a man. So I looked up on youtube and found only one video, and it reaffirmed by belief that only men should propose.

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  • Energy
    10 years ago

    Either one. It doesn't matter.

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  • something_weird
    10 years ago

    Whoever works up the nerve first should propose. I'm a woman and I would rather do the proposing personally.

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  • DiamondGirl
    10 years ago

    Im married and the man should definatly propose, or else it seems like the girl is desperate. My man proposed to me. And I would never propose to a guy. Please. Only a fugly girl would do that!

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      10 years ago

      not even a happenin feller like me? im all bout that big city life baby! mama promised me some goats as a reverse dowry. hows that for modenn life?

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      • DiamondGirl
        10 years ago

        Your funny! I like u.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    10 years ago

    women's supposedta drop less and less subtle hints until her fella finally bites the hook

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Divorce rates are 52% of all marriages. That means that you have more chance of having a failed marriage than a successful one.

    Based on that, I wouldn't want to get married and it doesn't matter to me who does it, it's a stupid decision.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      10 years ago

      but that lucky diamond studded gal stands to inherit a whole gaggle o chickens n goats n well im embarrassed at my wealth but lets just say theres some bovines in the mix too

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago | pl

        I.....What?

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    • davesumba
      10 years ago

      That is a false statistic.

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