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Do you think that someone who never felt attracted to anyone should try to have sex with someone if he/she older than a certain age (25, 30, 35) to see what it's like having sex?
Why?
You wont enjoy it. Sexual attraction is important. You'll end up feeling like you were raped or something and theyll feel like wtf? And probably get self concious. No one would be having fun. Wait till you find someone you like. If you never do that's ok 2. Dont let this sex crazed culture go to your head you are normal
I wouldn't consider having never felt any sexual attraction by age 25 to be normal. It's up for debate whether or not that's even possible.
I've known people before who claim to be like that. That's the asexuals if I remember right. But if those who've told me are telling the truth than I'd say it's normal for it's common enough
Yes people *claim* that. People claim all sorts of things. I feel bad saying I don't believe "asexuals" but I just don't lol. Even then it's like less than 5% of people so I would not call it normal.
Feel what? They aren't being truthful ik what they tell people they feel?
I think asexuals are either A, ashamed of their sexual desires because maybe their taboo or gross them out or B, just have such an abnormally low sex drive that they want an excuse for why their different, so they use the term "asexual".
Nah. Don't try to force yourself into something because you feel you "should" do it. Do what you "want" to do, not what society expects you to.
Yes especially if that person isn’t good looking you will make their life and they will always remember it 👌 how old are you ?
Yeah I would recommend such person try having sex. It's up to them and I would understand maybe not wanting to risk it but I feel like someone would be curious what all the buzz was about.
I think it's great how a lot of the hypocrisy and outright lies about sexuality that were prevalent when I was a kid many years ago have been replaced by more openness and truth. However, it seems to me that the balance might have tipped a little too far in the opposite direction, and the social pressure on people to be sexually active - or even promiscuous - in order to consider themselves 'normal' isn't a positive thing at all.
Understanding and accepting one's own sexuality can be life-enhancing, and being in a positive, healthy sexual relationship can add much joy to life, but nothing good is likely to come from you forcing yourself to do something you're simply not interested in.
If you feel you're missing out on an important part of life and there's a void that needs to be filled in order for you to feel complete, then perhaps you should seek counselling to help you identify what's gone wrong. But if you're generally content with your life and the only thing that bugs you is how others react to you not being interested in sex, then you should work on allowing the opinions of others to not bother you so much.
Everyone shoud try everything yo. No one should be able to graduate high school without eating a tab of acid. Just do it and if its not fun don't do it again, think of it like slot car racing.