Should or shouldn't i cancel our valentine's weekend trip??

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When my hubsand doesn't have any weed to smoke he doesn't talk to me and we don't have sex. when I try and talk to him he can be very short and snappy with me. So I just leave him alone altogether and when he has smoked weed he is a totally different person he talks more and we have sex at this time and he is more friendlier. Im actually dealing with a doctor jekyll and Mr. Hyde type thing And I can't seem to get past this up and down Shit. I've been booked us a valentine's weekend trip but I feel like I want to cancel our trip because of his behavior but if we go he will have weed and I will be dealing with his friendlier side but in the back of mine i will still be remembering how he treats me when he doesn't have any weed. Should or shouldn't I cancel our trip?

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    If I were you, he wasn't willing to work on his issues, I'd leave him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I think you should be scheduling couples therapy sessions if you want to stay in the marriage or consulting a divorce attorney if you would like to leave. A lot of people think marijuana is non addictive, but that's not necessarily true. Your husband appears to be addicted, and dependent on marijuana. I think he's past the point of just getting high, but now he needs to smoke marijuana just to feel normal.

    I can't tell you whether or not to cancel your trip, but I can certainly suggest, should you decide not to cancel, that you plan some solo activities for yourself. I do think when he acts the way he does when he's sober that he's probably partially going through withdrawal, but I also think he's manipulating you as all addicts do when they are in their addiction.

    You're not obigated to stay with him, and you're not responsible for his feelings or his actions. You really can leave him if you choose to do so. Being alone doesn't have to be a terrible thing, I was alone for a little over seven years and it really helped me.

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  • cinderellasundergarments
    7 years ago

    Go on your vacation alone and dont come back.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Wasn't this on here a couple of weeks back?

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