Should my stepdad touch me like this?

Young Lady,I am A police officer. That man is not your Dad!!! and That is the way in his sick mind he is looking at it to. He is a very dangerous person to you right now.I don't care if your 10 or 20,What he is doing to you is Molestation.You need to tell your Mother what has been going on since he has moved in your home.If your Mother is that blind which if the truth is known she already see's something is not right and that he is attracted to you.BUT!!!if not call the Police. If your in school tell your Teacher or a resourse Officer at school.I WISH I KNEW WHO HE IS!!!! GET HELP!

That is so not normal! Well, maybe it is in the scense that it happens all the time... but it shouldn't!!!! U should tell ur Mom. Yeah, she may not believe you but let her know that you're not lying and that you're telling her this because you're concerned and you don't know what to do. Let her know you aren't doing this because you recent him or you mom for marrying each other but your not comfortable with the fact that ur new step father is a freaking PERV! People go to jail for that shit...

you need to tell your mother

What you do is buy a video camera with night vision and catch him in the act show ur mom or the cops or as Kazzer900f said CUT THAT MOUTFUKKAS NUTS OFF!!

THIS GUY IS A PERV. TELL YOURE FUCKING MOM AND IF SHE DOESNT BELIEVE CALL THE FUCKING COPS. too many adults think that kids are fucking OVERREACTING. but one day youre gna get raped and when you do, you're gna wish you told someone earlier. TRUST ME

how old are you? you must be young to have to ask if this is normal, this is NOT normal, you need to tell someone other than your mother because she obvi isnt listening.
i am sorry for your situation.

this is one of the very rare times you actually should call the police

WT-F******F Robert B you are just like her step dad. Just when I think statutory laws are f****d simply because there are girls out ther underage that know what they want and are manipulaters, and use the law to be little cunts, I hear of someone who is cofused and doesn't want it and some sick f**k want's to take advantage of her, it makes me glad there are such laws. My advice to you is to tell your mom, if she does'nt believe you maybe you can save some allowence to buy a camera and secretly video him, make a copy of it in case your mom is too f*****d to do anything about it, and takes it from you. In this case take the other copy to an authority.
My heart goes out to you and I'm sorry you have to risk your relationship with your mother, you don't deserve this.

ok well think about this. its obviously sexual. but do you like it? if so fuck it. if not tell him to stop and if he doesnt stop tell your mom. if he doesnt stop then, hit him with something very very heavy when he is sleeping... and tell him its daughterly rebellion.

How do you actually feel about it? If your old enough and you like the feeling / sensation, then I dont see the problem.. In your shoes I think I'd encourage him and make him do all sorts to me lol, but thats just me..

If you dont want it, just tell him to stop, end of.

HELL NO IT'S NOT OKAY! Tell that fucking perve to stop or go to the damn cops if your mom won't believe you. Next he wakes you up like that kick him in the balls as hard as you fucking can so he screams and your mom hears it. She'll believe you then.

he's abusing his role as your dad. stepdad or not, it makes no difference. not to mention the fact that he is attempting to cheat on his wife, your mother. also would you really want a dick inside you that has also been inside your mom?

@ RobertB

YOU ARE SICK. Dads don't touch private areas like that.

girl, u need to tell your mom, even if she doesn't believe you. Go to the cops. it is not normal and if u don't stop him now it might escalate to something worse like rape... get help!

No! No parental figure should do that. They're just disguising it by calling it affection, no, it's MOLESTATION!
If he hasn't hurt you, then I would just ask him to stop insted of calling the police.
But if he has, or ever does, phone 911 IMMEDIATELY!

Give him a lapdance. And wear tight jeans or tight spandex when doing the lapdance.

That will keep his hands off ya!

if you did what robertb says it would go from touching to f***ing

Lucky. I wish my stepdad did that stuff to me. But he does smell like fish.

How could you accuse him of this? I do this all the time to my daughter. She's 8.

I also stick my penis up her vagina, just to show my fatherly affection. She really does enjoy it, and she appriciates the love.

Stop being such a cunt and embrace your stepfathers love.

okay. This might turn into rape. Next time, set up a voice recorder or video camera secretly, THEN SHOW YOUR MUM. THIS IS ACTUALLY SERIOUS.

When hes a sleep, cut off his dick and stick it in his mouth.

Sadly these cases are all too common, but it is very unhealthy behavior that is molestation. If you can, make sure your mother sees what happens and have her intervene. If that fails contact a organization that specialize in child molestation and they will intervene.

NO thats not normal.. your step dad is taking advantage of you... Next time he does that embarras the hell out of him.. Yell at the top of your lung DONT FUKIN TOUCH ME AGAIN!! until he gets the message.. you shouldnt have to go through that

straight up!! call the police!

wait everybody this sounds like that movie but fuck i forgot the name lol

Better yet, tell a teacher or counsellor at school. If you are unsure your mom would believe you that is. If you have a trusting relationship with her she should listen. If not, run away to child protective services, then become an assassin and take out this subhuman!

Tell your mom....this behaviour is unacceptable...you could be abused

Move out. Your sick fuck of a step dad is a pedophille and creepy. Also, tell the police and anyone else who will listen. Also, if he does it again, do what Irdskillz said: give him a scare by yelling at him.

This happened about a yr and a half ago, so ??? happened by now.

Hopefully, she told on him, as he is a manipulative creep, who WILL be coercing her into sex if he hasn't already. Things like that start slowly, and he will attempt to convince her she is imagining things, like his intentions. I'm guessing she is between 10 and 13 to know there is something wrong but to think he was still nice. Hope you got some help honey, even told a friend that told her mom for you.

sick disgusting bastard.... agree with comment 1, cut the motherfukers nuts off....

I'm sorry to say this, but he is going to rape you. This is not normal behavior, but it is normal behavior for a sexual predator.

wow that is so not ok honey. you need to tell someone you can trust and get the hell outta that house

You need to stop him before he goes any further.

no this isnt normal! make a fucking big deal out of it and i guarantee he wont do it again! fuckin peado!

I feel bad for you. Your step-dad is a sick man. He needs help that you cannot give him. I would move out when you are old enough. I would ask some friends if you can live with them now. Adults are supposed to be role models and your step dad is teaching you bad things. That is not normal, but it does happen to people who you might never guess! I hope you find a better place to live!

i dont necessarily think that's true i'd rather go with a brunette than a blonde and im not bothered about tit size as long as they have some.

I would say it depends how you feel. Plus how old r u?

hes trying to trick you so he can fuck you

It's only normal but try telling him no if u don't like him doing that to u and if u like him doing that to you don't stop him let and do the same to him and have sex with him but keep it a secret and him and if he is ur stepfather he is really not related to u anyways but if you feel like u don't like it stop him not just only closing ur legs tell him to stop touching u all together and threaten him by saying I will tell mom but don't really tell he will back off trust me he will back the hell off

THIS IS A SERIOUS THING YOU NEED TO TELL A COUCLER AT SCHOOL OR ANYWERE!!! IT IS NOT FATHERLY LOVE MY DAD NEVER TOCHES ME THER OR ANYWERE THAT IS GROSE YOU BETTER SPEAK UP BEFORE HE RAPES YOU.
*Jemmey*

If you enjoy this relationship with him well thats fine, however I think thats fucked up because he is lying to you he is getting off and I think your not that dumb to not get that. The problem here is he is doing it behind your moms back. Plus how old are you. You should defiantly tell your mother don't be scared speak up if you don't want it. Tell him NO if you don't like it.

I could not help but notice: You never said that you did not like the attention.
It's probably not normal but we all come by some of our sex education in many different ways and most of them are better than the trial-and-error method as promoted by current abstinence programs in the schools.

That's real fucked. Call the damn cops

My moms ex-husband did the same thing, he said it was normal to me as well. This happened when I was 15 and my mom never believed, I think that you should talk to someone, anyone that is willing to help and will listen to you with an open mind. Dont be silent, speak out, it is liberating once you do.

Do you remember a guy that's been
In such an early song
I've heard a rumour from Ground Control
Oh no, don't say it's true

They got a message from the Action Man
"I'm happy. Hope you're happy, too.
I've loved. All I've needed: love.
Sordid details following."

The shrieking of nothing is killing me
Just pictures of Jap girls in synthesis
And I ain't got no money and I ain't got no hair
But I'm hoping to kick but the planet is glowing

Hit him with that. Even though it has been years. That will teach him..
(I aint being serious as 3 years have passed. It should be done by now.... right?)

This is NOT ok. Don't let this go on! It could get worse! The video footage is a great idea!

he is an arse hole press charges on him and if you can move out of home.

Get this guy on camera so they lock him up, and he can get what he deserves. ASS RAPE!!!

I would enjoy it but if you don't PHONE THE POLICE!!!!

You need to call the police immediately. Once my moms bf asked if he could kiss me and I told no and I told my mom. So you should tell your mom first and if she doesn't do anything go to the police.

Well if he's young, like around late 20s-early 30s I'd say this is completely normal. But if he's old, this isn't normal. It shouldn't be convincing you AT ALL that this is "fatherly affection." It's not. I don't remember my father rubbing my thighs and kneading my boobs. Seems like your step father is trying to get in your pants. In NO WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM is this normal. Next time this happens, I hope you tell your mom because I wouldn't go a day more living with a step father like that.

hell thjis is not normal CALL THE POLICE or get him in a mental hospital not normal add all

Either your trolling and know what we'll all say, or you actually have no clue you should be upset about this and calling the police.

Can we please get an update on all this??

when alone with your mom tell her what happens or text her just start beging and say what he did to you an wine a lot

tell every one you know friends teachers police aunts uncles
couzin tell them they will care tell them to call your mom and tell her whats happing thats sexually abuse
carry a knife or someting to protect your self

have hope
i whis you good luck

it will end up by he raping u if u dont do sumthing and we dont want that to happend im scared idk why tho idk u but i guess its not nice to get raped

That's no way that this is normal. Do not let him do that again. You need to tell your mother and if she trusts him more than you, record it by putting a hidden cam somewhere but if that's impossible for you to do so, it's best to tell cops. You COULD be raped someday if you let this continue. He's absolutely trying to molest you. Do something about it, now.

It is NOT NORMAL- SCREAM, CRY, CALL FOR HELP.
He WILL try to RAPE you- that is NOT fatherly affection. So help me, if you tall your mother and she doesn't do anything, tell another adult and take matters into your own hands and "neutalize" the threat.

He KNOWS that shit is wrong- I bet he doesn't do it when your mother is there, or can see, does he?

F*cking Bastard.

NOT NORMAL! Really fucked up, and definitely not normal!

Tell someone. If you don't think your mom will believe you, don't go to her first. Tell a teacher or the police!

Listen to the police officer!

what are you 12? Call the cops, better yet tape it and then call the cops.

He is a freak!!!

Dads dont do that you should tell your mom or tell your granma that uncle chester need to be drop dont stand for that defend yours self

Is this real young lady, because if so I am a federal prosecutor I deal with cases like this all the time, you need to talk to your mom or a neighbor you can trust. as said before by others call your local police. don't tell him your calling the cops do it on your own but only if your mom does nothing like kicking him out. No this is not normal step dads don't do that I'm one and I would kill for my stepdaughter and she knows it we have a very close relationship people think she is my biological daughter we are so close, so no h*ll no this is not normal. it's to bad I don't know what state your in I would have him picked up and taken into custody in Michigan that would be a class a felony which carries a tier 3 offenders registry.

dont be so naive, you know what is going on and you need to do something about it

But if it gets outta hand tell ur mom don't waste anytime

'I ment keep it a secret between u and him' were put in my last post "and him and"

I think you need to tell someone about this as soon as possible. This man needs help but, more importantly you need to be rid of this abuse because abuse is what it is. I can't put it in stronger terms than this, the longer you leave it the chances are he is going to go just that bit further or, maybe a whole lot further. For your own sake and possibly for the sake of others, take courage in both hands and report it to a responsible adult.

Look, its not OK what he is doing, I am a stepfather and I do not do this type of thing and I couldn't love my wife's kids any more if they were my own flesh and blood. GET HELP NOW! he is going to rape you one of these nights, and that is something that can never be taken back. Talk to a police officer, a teacher an Aunt or uncle if your mom wont listen. Speak up! dont let this man ruin your life.

@trooper, I wish there was some way of finding these people... Some of what ive seen on here is serious stuff, and not being able to do anything is pissing me off...

@op: I hope you found help. That man is a monster who oughta be locked up or worse.

@the IIN staff: you damn bastards. How could you feel it was right or appropriate for this to go in the humor section? RAPE ISN'T FUNNY

this is NOT normal you need to tell your mom if he didnt have the idea of anything sexual in mind he wouldnt say it's nothing sexual when you close your legs taht is wrong and touching you in your sleep is also VERY wrong

THATS NOT OK! TELL UR MOM AND CHOP HIS BALLS OFF~!

Tell him that it's not appropriate and you don't like it. Then tell your Mom and then call the police. Paedophile stuff goes on all the time and people don't report it, if you've asked him to stop and he hasn't stopped then he's not going to. You could also tell a school teacher if your in school. In fact that would be one of the best things to do because they would know what to do. Also you could call a counselling hotline. If he doesn't stop you have to tell someone who will listen to you.

Honestly no.
Get help from someone who you know you can trust in this matter.

If you tell you'r mom, she'll talk about it with the guy, and if the guy finds out that you told on him,... ugly things might happen.

NOT NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tell him that you're going to tell and see if he stops...if he does stop then it's a win for you because you don't have to hurt your mom. if he does not stop then tell your mom,the cops and anyone else who will listen.

You shouldn't let your step-dad touch you that way. Tell somebody..the cops, your mom, anybody. Get his ass locked up.

Video camera above the television. Above on a shelf or something. Hidden as much as possible.

Once you have evidence, tell her.
If she doesn't believe you, then show her.
Simple.

This is not normal by a long shot >.>