Should i wait further?

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Hello,

I am bigsize girl. I do have self-confident but sometimes after being pulled down several times it went away, it will take me sometime to gain back the confident.

Here is my story.

After being disappointed in love with my ex that I have been for 6years. I drowned myself with work and everything but not a relationship.Recently, I met a guy on a networking site. We chatted and go out few times. During the first meeting, he told me he fell in love with me @ first sight. He enjoy chatting with me as me being the positive being, always manage to make him smile.

Ater a while, I fall in love with him as well. That's when I committed myself to him. The night before he flys off, I asked him while chatting with him online whether is he serious about us?? He asked me why am I doubting him and why wouldn't he be serious with me. I told him that I was just thinking, why would a perfect guy like him, good career, good family and good looking guy would love and like me. He refused to answer and tell me to call him in the morning.

I did as per instructed, however my calls were not answered till today, it's been a month. All my emails and text messages was not answered. my phone calls also. He even deleted me from our online messenger and the networking site.

I do like him n love him. I fall for him for every little thing he said and promised. But should I just wait or moved on? Is it normal that he is ignoring me?
Need your advise

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  • nemoboy108
    13 years ago

    TL;DR

    Also the dude sounds like hes done with you, if you said he has a good family, could it be that he was using you as (i forgot the word for it) a woman to cheat on his wife with?

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  • janjan
    13 years ago

    I'm thinking everyone else above me wrote bull, this is definitely not about him needing space nor being out of your league.

    Sweets, this is about your self-confidence. Zero self-confidence = major turn-off. You telling him you're skeptic as to why he likes you = major turn-off.
    You want some advice? Love yourself before you love someone else. You might think you do, but just the fact that you say you don't deserve him shows just how much you are unaware of your uniqueness.

    Stand up and be confident! You are worth a lot :)

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  • Blu
    13 years ago

    i'm not done readin.....

    ok, i'm done.
    if he wants space then give it to him. it takes two to tango

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Never doubt a guy out loud. This story was really cute :) (except of course th end part about not answering th calls and stuff.) maybe he's dead!!!!!!!! AAAHHHHHH! No I'm JK! Don't worry haha so maybe u shud not call/txt/message him for a while! Give him a month and th nxt time he goes somewhere that u find about look absolutely gorgeous! Pretty/sexy dress and dolled up hair stuff lik that! Make urself feel and look model-like :) as soon as he sees u he will not be able to stop thinking about u! He will be back for more don't worry :) and just make sure u let him make th move!
    Hope this helps!!!

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    • zestyzealous
      13 years ago

      thanks everdlove.... i am hopeful he will come back a day...
      i just feel like he hanged me cluelessly..

      what i need is just for him to come clear n be true to me...

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  • dragona
    13 years ago

    Too long to read but yet you took the time to scroll down?????

    Honey, I would move on. It seems like he has

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  • scandinavia
    13 years ago

    hm maybe you made him feel he was above your league..have no clue, strange behaviour..just dont care about him, not worth it is it...

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    • zestyzealous
      13 years ago

      i watched she's out of my league a little bit too late...

      after that movie, i realised i did make a mistake.... :-)

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  • heeraklee
    13 years ago

    agreed. too long to read

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    • understander(origanil)
      13 years ago

      agreed

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If he loved you as much as he said he did, he would do everything to atleast talk to you once a day. Looks like he must of been very busy with other girls. You can always ask him why he ignored you and removed you from the network thing but I'm 99.99% sure he will lie.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Definitely move on! Someone who cares wouldn't think of treating you that way!

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  • CaramelChrissy
    13 years ago

    I think you should move on. If he really did "Love" you he wouldn't ignore you like he is doing now. It's been a month. I don't think you are on his mind.

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