Should i try harder?

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I'll keep this brief, so here it goes. Well, I'm asexual and in a relationship with someone who isn't. I don't mind any sexual aspects (as in, it doesn't frighten me) I'm just disinterested. However, I would like to be able to do these things (and do so properly/with confidence, soemthing that I don't have) in order to make my partner happy.

I don't know...I almost never try to initiate anything sexual because I can't feel a damn thing, but whenever we try to do something I'm usually awkwardly doing nothing, and shy. Well I kind of want to fix that...

What can I do? Should I just ask my partner what I should do? Again, even though I'm asexual I don't MIND doing things it's just I literally have no clue what to do. He said he likes it when I take the initiative but...I'm very shy and lack confidence in myself. I sort of just freeze up and retreat into myself when I try to do something. Should I try harder? Could I have some advice?

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  • kayleeberry101
    9 years ago

    I'm confused by your post.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Might as well ask him what he wants you to do. We don't know his preferences and such, anyway.

    One thing you can do for now is watch some porn or google some sex related stuff, though. Y'know, get an idea of what positions exist and the uh.. procedure for them.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Just try harder. Watch to see what he likes and doesnt like and do what he likes.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    See a Doctor.

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  • EccentricWeird
    9 years ago

    Your post is boring, so I didn't really read it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Your comment wasted 0.001 milliseconds of my life. Thanks, asshole.

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      • EccentricWeird
        9 years ago

        If you're a supercomputer than can read what I wrote and respond to it in one microsecond, then you wouldn't have such boring problems to begin with. FACE!

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