Should i trust him?

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im in a long distance relationship and it seems to be going great. we see each other ever two months and his family lives in my town (hes in college in a different state.) the other day i saw a comment he made on a photo on fb to this one girl. it was kind of a trampy picture and he thought it was hot. she told him to "come and get it." he continued to talk about it back and forth with her. we would never cheat on each other and he cares about me but i just dont feel right about what he did. obviously he feels that he can do things like that since he did it on facebook where everyone can see. is it normal for me to be jealous and not trust him as much anymore?

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  • jck20
    11 years ago

    Jealousy is definitely normal. However, if you are in a relationship you need to be able to trust in your partner and communicate with them... If you are upset/don't like something they did or are doing, you should let him know so that he can fix it and not do it again.

    Good Luck!
    Sincerely, John C K

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  • normaliscrazy
    13 years ago

    you shouldnt trust him, at all.
    i dont really believe in long distant relationships tbh, it has alot of shakey trust issues.
    i think you should ask him why he made the comments on facebook he made and figure out whats going on with you two.

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  • txchick
    14 years ago

    It is totally normal to feel that way since he's in another state but after seeing what he said on fb, I wouldn't trust him. We often ask the advice of others when we already know the answer but don't want to accept it. I think you know your answer. Follow your gut.

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  • radishbobby84
    14 years ago

    yea totaly normal... long distent relationships always have shakey trust issues

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  • frankiestrange
    12 years ago

    Talk to him about it. :(

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    Trust is something only you can determine. Are you going to base your entire relationship on this single incident? If you are doubting his loyalty, it is normal. Do you really think he is cheating on you? Do you think that all of these strangers are right? You have to believe what is in your heart. We don't know you and we don't know him. There is nothing wrong with admiring beauty in others. Have you told him how you feel? Try that. Maybe you just need some good old fashioned reassurance. Trust your heart, and your man, not strangers.

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  • sgbslp
    14 years ago

    Good thing you see it now. It's sad to find it after you're married.

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  • Ihave2try
    14 years ago

    That was very disrespectful of him to do that to you, don't trust him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    U shouldn't trust him. He's a guy in college who only wants sex. So u should be careful

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