Should i tell my friends

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I'm happily married and straight but I've recently had a bit of fun with another man I've met at the gym while the family are out the house. Nothing heavy. Should I come clean to my wife?

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  • Britneywolf
    6 years ago

    It depends how bad a "bit of fun" is. If you truly love your wife, I would suggest you stop since this is concidered cheating.

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  • Speciosa
    6 years ago

    I would say if it was an isolated incident, and you don't think you will do it again, then there is no need to tell your wife. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. You said it was "nothing heavy," but I am not sure what you mean by this, as everyone has their own defition of what is "heavy." Can you explain what activity you engaged in? Or, if you don't feel comfortable getting into specifics, what I am driving at is, did you do something that put you at risk for contracting at STD?

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    • Richard_mac
      6 years ago

      Well we took a shower together, washed each other then gave each other hand relief on the bed. I doubt any chance of STDs.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Just stop being a cheater.

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  • SilverNight1
    6 years ago

    Tell her. Its best to do it know before she finds out. I believen three things in a relationship.... trust, honesty and loyalty

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  • Tyty556677
    6 years ago

    Just a jerk bud, thats all that is!

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  • geckopaws
    6 years ago

    If you love your wife. Be brave and exit the relationship before someone seriously gets hurt. Physically and/or emotionally.

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  • edreams
    6 years ago

    You should come clean and let her know it happened once.

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  • ringspirit
    6 years ago

    Man or woman, it is cheating. BTW, if you enjoyed it, you are somewhere on the bi-continuum. Not judging, but be honest with yourself. If this was a one-off, don't tell. If you find yourself wanting more interaction with men,you should tell your wife about your feelings and let her know that there is sexual attraction. She can then help you either by expanding your fantasy life with her, or even look at her feelings toward a more open relationship.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Do you have kids?

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    • rayb12
      6 years ago

      If you are the type of person where you think at any point in your life this may come out. And if there is any chance you might have children, tell her before you knock her up.

      Destroying her marriage is one thing, but destroying kids lives as well is cruel

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  • PenisNV
    6 years ago

    Start the conversation off by saying, honey maybe you should have an HIV test. That should break the ice.

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  • lonewolf1253
    6 years ago

    No. Some things are better left unsaid. All you would accomplish hurting her feelings.

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    • Starr1231
      6 years ago

      It it was another man it's ok . Don't tell her . But if it's another woman then you don't love your wife .

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