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Well, I'm a gay guy and I like this straight best friend of mine. And he does kinda flirt with me a little, and lies to his girlfriend to hang out with me alone. I haven't told him I'm gay, but I've told him I don't like girls that way. He's pretty hot and he often compliments me too. So, Idk. Should I tell him I like him ??
| Yeah | 49 | |
| No | 27 | |
| Other | 8 |
Seduce him without using words and see how he reacts. Talking may frighten him away.
This^ My room mate's gay friend wrote a poem about how he seduces straight guys simply by looking at them in a certain way (it was called something like "How to turn a straight guy with a fake lisp and a crooked smile"). And I've noticed when guy's look at me in a "you are really hot, i want to do naughty things to you" kind of way, I just may let them.
Nice idea. I have tried this a little, and so far he has responded positively. He calls me to sleep in his bed and lies in my arms, and checks me out at the gym shower. But am worried he will freak out if I tell him I like him. But I REALLY wanna be his boyfriend!
Well, you've already taken the first step and if he responded positively, that is a good sign that he might be interested in you, too.
You should possibly try getting some sexual tension between you two. Go down on his dick with your hand when you are lying in bed, or something like that.
So do you want to butt fuck him or just date him and like kiss and hang out and shit? I personally ain't gay but I wouldn't mind "dating" a dude, I don't want to kiss a dude but dude's seem so much easier to hang out with and live with.
I'm not into anal sex at all. I just wanna date him and yeah, kissing maybe if he's cool with it. I totally understand the part about dudes being easier to live with. Many shared interests and lot less drama.
I mean with dudes, if I "dated" my friends, we could smoke weed with each other all time, eat Chinese food and all other good shit while we play some video games and they don't spend a fucking hour in the damn bathroom trying to cake a pound of make up on their face... sometimes I wish I was gay.
I voted no, because I thought it was odd to make a move on a supposed 'friend' and risk ruining the friendship. However, I could see why it's a good idea to tell him also. I have mixed opinions towards this.
I can agree with that. It would be like a straight guy telling his best girl friend that he loves her at the wrong time. It may make things different between the two. But at the same time, what if the friend shared the feelings, or it didn't bother them (from my experience, when I find out my gal friends like me, it doesn't change things between us a bit, and it really boosts my self esteem)