Should i tell him?

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Me and my bestfriend have slept together a few times. We both know that he does not see me as girlfriend material and I'm ok with that.

I had a miscarriage yesterday, very early (about 6/7 weeks). I have not told him though, I'm not sure if I should. He is the type of guy who if he doesn't have a condom, he will use the pull out method. Using this method still has a small chance of pregnancy. He doesn't believe that though. Should I try to tell him that I miscarried his baby?

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  • jessicadavid
    11 years ago | pl

    you should tell him so that he will be carefull next time:)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Tell him that his pull out method is a crock of baloney. If he refuses to believe you, the next time it happens, show him the fleshy sac you passed.

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    • RockerRoseanne
      11 years ago

      This reply actually made me laugh.XD
      If it happens again I may just do that.XD

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      • TerryVie
        11 years ago

        also, since you seem smarter in regards to pull-out, try and make sure you HAVE condoms on hand. like, i always have a pack in my handbag, just in case.
        Him being uninformed, unprepared and lazy is no excuse to be yourself ;)

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Tell him. I don't really see a reason not to.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Tell him.
    In my opinion, if that were to happen to me, as I am 20 and in college and can't afford a baby, and I were to miscarry, I would consider it a close call. What would be wrong would be to go on with this knowledge and risk letting it happen again knowing full and well that it is possible.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Tell Him!

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  • RockerRoseanne
    11 years ago

    told him, he believes me but now have other issues.¬¬

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