Should i tell her?

I am female and bisexual. When I was in high school I didn't have many friends. I was very socially awkward. There was a girl who I thought was the coolest person ever. I had a massive crush on her. I was too shy to tell her because I was scared she wouldn't feel the same way. So instead I wrote her friendly notes. She wrote me notes and letters back. We didn't talk to each other until we had been sending letters for a few months. I used to get so breathless when I saw her I couldn't talk. Now we are good friends and still talk frequently, 3 years later.
She doesn't know that I'm bisexual. She doesn't know that the reason I communicated with her in the first place was because I had a crush on her. I still do have a crush on her. But we both have boyfriends now. Should I tell her I like/d her in that way?

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  • thegypsysailor

    It depends on whether you are willing to risk the friendship. If she doesn't appreciate the sentiment, she might just end the friendship.

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  • stopandthink

    You shouldn't have started a relationship with your boyfriend if you have a lesbian feeling for another girl.
    At this point you're just using him. If she says no, you keep him. If she says yes, you don't. Just a thought.

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    • Um no. I'm going to stay with him whatever she says

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  • Arm0se

    You have a boyfriend... how does he feel about all this?

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