Should i still be friend with someone who confided me this?

Today I was walking with a friend, and we didn't know what to talk about. So, he started talking me about a strange personal thing, and he said he love little girls. I mean, everyone likes them, but he told me about it like they are a wonderful thing, and I started getting worried. He didn't tell anything bad. What should I do?

Yes, I should understand him. 24
I shouldn't understand him but I shouldn't judge him. 26
I should take some time to think. 36
I should be less his friend. 8
I shouldn't be his frend anymore. 12
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  • shuggy-chan

    Little girls you say

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    • blaster

      what the f'k does this mean !

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    • BunnyRiven33

      Look guys!! Its pedobear!!!!

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      • shuggy-chan

        ᶘ ᵒᴥᵒᶅ oh you mean this guy. Lol it also almost a 2 year old comment... damn ive been here too long

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    • Allistalla

      Talk to him , if he says that he means he wants to have sex with children . If he explains he does tell him how wrong that is , if he does not understand he is a sick bastard and an imorol freak . If he says yes record him him saying he likes children and than convince him to go to therepy if he refuses to go to therepy take than video recording and send it to the police .

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    • Shrunk

      <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GAHfZNPoLW0" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GAHfZNPoLW0</a>

      the op made me think of that song too xd

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      • Justsomejerk

        Thank you.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Maybe you could sneakily/slyly find out more about his liking for little girls, to see if it sinister or not. Then take things from there.

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  • blaster

    Ahh I dunno , don't think that'd be as unusual as people think. Would've been normal a few hundred yrs ago, still is in some countries. But we're told what we can and can't like , should and shouldn't like,think, what's politically correct and there's numbers and laws on f'n everything so your just not gonna hear about things publicly but what's really in peoples heads is a different ball game altogether .
    Anyway , a friend is a friend to me and unless they're hurting anyone I'd be like whatever.

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    • DolphinAngel

      Awesome answer!

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  • nightmare28

    Be sure you fully understand what he means. I love little kids too, but not in a sick way, and in general little girls are much nicer and cleaner then little boys, they will rarely throw your stuff out of the third floor window when you're not looking. On the other hand, once they grow into their teens, I just want to strangle them.

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    • PalestinianGuy

      I hate to admit it, but I agree with most of your posts.

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  • Dad

    Quote: "He didn't tell anything bad"

    What he actually said was: 'love little girls..... like they are a wonderful thing'
    What exactly do YOU think he meant?

    If he had said I hate little girls and they are grotesque, would you feel any better?
    As one of the other replies stated, you just need to find out exactly what he means BEFORE coming up with your own conclusions in your (possibly) perverted mind.

    Yuk, I just saw a pretty little girl, I might need to spew now :D
    Oh wait, a girl? Oh that's nice.

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  • Kovu

    I love little girls, I suppose you could say in a sexual way. But I'm not going to act on it what harm can it cause? Some people think differently, if he needs to go to therapy, so be it, just don't judge him for who or what he is attracted to.

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  • He likes little children that are female, what a pedophile...Ugh.

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  • Aleks85

    Who cares, pedos are people too. As long as he's not talking about raping any girls I don't see a problem.

    In fact, he should be worried about you as a friend, he confided something in you out of trust, and you turn around and post it on the internet. Ironic aint it?

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    • Allistalla

      If she isnt saying who it is ? how would we know who it was ?

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      • Aleks85

        We wouldn't but that doesn't change the fact that he's sharing a secret that someone confided in him.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    As long as he doesn't act on it, you can continue being his friend.

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    • I agree but perhaps she should ask him what he means.

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Good point.

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  • Kagean

    The thing about older people who likes children in "that" way is that the children gets scarred for life since they're not supposed to be doing those kind of things. If your friend wants to keep up.... whatever he's doing I wouldn't care as long as he doesn't change peoples lives in a negative way. I also feel a bit sorry for those kind of individuals who are tormented by this need, since nothing about it is neither accepted nor good for the people who gets involved. I'd say as long as he is who he is in a harmless way, it's not too big of a problem.
    Maybe he's been through something he hasn't told you about that triggered this... Talk to him about it.
    I'm also going to say it: pedophiles are actually people too, no matter how lowly modern society thinks about them.

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  • Justsomejerk

    I think you should discuss the matter with him further. If he loves them the way people love the smell of rain then alls well and good. If he meant it in a sexual way then as his friend it is your duty to get him to see he needs to get help before he does something wrong.

    Unfriending him isn't going to help anyone.

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  • wigsplitz

    It's not fair to assume he meant anything bad by it. Some men really like children, not in any sexual way. Just ask what he meant.

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    • bigtoy

      Except that he didn't say "children", he said "little girls" - quite a difference.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Talk to him about it more, maybe he has little cousins or nieces, and he doesn't mean it in a weird way. Just ask him about it , and see what he meant.

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  • Darkoil

    No that guy is definitely a pedo, have him arrested.

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    • Darkoil

      P.S. I'm frackin joking you bunch of dumb bastards.

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    • "No that guy is definitely a pedo, have him arrested."

      For what exactly? Talking?

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    • As I said, better to ask him so that he can explain what he means.

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    • Aleks85

      Have him arrested for what? Thought crimes? Moron.

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