Should i stay or should i go? is it normal to hold on?

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This guy is always on my mind. We were dating for 2 years and I found out he cheated on me. He told me that I scared him away when I expected a committment from him. Now, he's sorry and keeps coming to see me. Everyone has told me to get rid of him but I can't seem to let go and I have no interest in dating again even though i've had many offers. I don't want to cheat but I feel I should get back at him and teach him a lesson!!!

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Based on 19 votes (10 yes)
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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Move on and never stoop down to his level by cheating on him or any future bf you may have.

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    • TutyFruity
      12 years ago

      Thanks, I will move on. It's been so hard for me to admit it but I know I must. It has taken me months but I'm ready.

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  • TutyFruity
    12 years ago

    Well, he violated parole do he's back in jail for a year! Karma's a BITCH!!! Lol...What goes around, comes around honey!!! :-). And if he think's I'm waitin for him, he's crazy!!!

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    • TutyFruity
      12 years ago

      I'm finally free from cheaters and fakes! Saying goodbye!

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      • DarnIT
        11 years ago

        Thats very good im happy for you,Good Luck TC.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    So it didn't work out with the other girl and he's back crawling to you. Don't go back with him for revenge reasons. Remember - he's an ex for a reason. Give it time and you'll meet someone better.

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    • TutyFruity
      12 years ago

      If he cheated once, he'll cheat again! I can't believe he didn't appreciate me. Now, he lost my trust forever and that's what relationships are bulit on. What a foundation will that be for our relationship? Not a good one, huh? I'm so dissapointed in him but that's he did to himself. I know exactly what I should do but it's hard to stay consistent with my decision. I need to be stronger.

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  • DarnIT
    12 years ago

    no dont back again ur not worthless and lesser than anyone you deserve someone much much better,your answer is there in the question if he has cheated on you already what the guarantee he wont do it again??

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  • lalaland1122
    12 years ago

    good chance he will cheat again. ive cheated on 3 boyfriends and it was hilarious

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