Should i stay or go?

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Yesterday I went out with my only friend I have to go out with, there was a group of 9 of us half her family and most friends I knew.. We went to bingo which I enjoy and I knew the people so I was comfortable.
Now being shy and introverted it had been hard for me to push myself the question is should I be doing? She wants me to go round town with her and 34 others which honestly scares me, I don't like drinking or people or crowds with others I don't know especially, I'll be so quiet and and nervous and ahh. But I feel I need to do this to make friends and give myself confidence, (not her friends they aren't my type)
So should I go or not ??

Go 9
Stay 7
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Should I stay or should I go?
    Should I stay or should I go?
    If I go there will be trouble
    And if I stay it will be double
    So come on and let me know
    Should I stay or should I go?

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    • megadriver
      8 years ago

      Same thought. Now I got the song stuck in my head...

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    • Ace9
      8 years ago

      FarCry4... good times, man. Good times indeed...

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      • megadriver
        8 years ago

        Far cry? Do people really just recognize oldies from games and movies now?

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        • Ace9
          8 years ago

          FYI, I'm not as old as u think I am. I haven't been around that long to know the "oldies" by any other ways! And I'm not in the same country as u r so it's not as easy to know the "oldies" like u do! FarCry4 is the only memory that song brings back to me! Perhaps consider my conditions next time u were gonna judge me like the total idiot u r!
          NOW STOP GIVING ME THUMBS DOWN!

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          • megadriver
            8 years ago

            First off: I didn't thumb you down.
            I couldn't care less about the stupid thumb thing.
            Second: DON'T CAPS ME! Lower the attitude.
            Third: I asked a simple question. If you go on an idiotic rage 'cause of this, you need help.

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  • imperialguard404
    8 years ago

    Bean Bag Buccaneers is a two player children's game, the object of which is to pick up your treasure chest on the central island and sail back safely.

    Each player has a giant sailing ship as their main game piece. Each ship has a removable sail, two trigger-action side panels, and a huge spring-driven cannon. Players take turns moving forward along a prescribed track and shooting bean bags at their opponent's ship. A hit on one of the side panels will force it to pop off and give the player a free shot at the other side; a hit forcing the sail off becalms the ship for a turn.

    To add to the pirate flavor, each player also has an eye patch. Wearing these will slightly affect depth perception and add a marginal bit of sport to the shooting.

    This game retailed for the somewhat impressive sum of $16 back in 1962. With its huge plastic ships (close to a foot long), giant vinyl play mat, and the eye patches, it may well stand as one of the more overproduced games of the early 1960s.

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  • noid
    8 years ago

    Doesn't sound like your type of potential friends or activities you enjoy. So I say stay. You just need different opportunities

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    It depends if you want to stay introverted: I suggested that as a little step towards change, but it's up to you

    If it's just too hard, don't go, and if you want to get over your introversion try something less challenging and go on from there

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I'm not even that introverted it's the fact I can't make friends and hate drinking...

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Maybe you need to find people you have some common interest with, anything will do and there are lots of people around who can socialise without drinking

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Go and if it gets too difficult, leave. It's ok to tell people you don't like being in big crowds, I don't either

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      But I'm so introverted and scared and nervous and people I don't know?

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  • Dazed_dreamer
    8 years ago

    Go

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    You should go. You don't have to stay, but you should go.

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    You can always fuck off if you want or suck a few cocks and make someone happy that way. It's not all about you, you know!

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    loosen the fuck up and go

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