Should i sleep with him/tease him to hurt him?

It is immature and petty. But, hey, what he's doing to you is just as bad. It's funny seeing all the comments from boys(shocking that they're all boys, isn't it?) who have no problem with what he's doing to you but are horrified by the idea of you turning the tables on him.

I think the concern about him turning violent is legitimate, though, it's definitely not paranoia. Lots of boys who don't seem like the violent type can turn violent in a heartbeat. One solution to that would be handcuffs. I don't know what kind of sex you two are into, but you could tell him you want to try something new, handcuff him to the bed, then safely say whatever you want and bail. Or get something like pepper spray or mace, which would be a good idea to carry around in your purse anyway. If you're going to follow through on this, you definitely need to factor in the possibility of him turning violent...because, again, I cannot stress enough that guys who "aren't the violent type" can and do turn violent.

Of course, there are also other ways to get revenge. For example, you could ghost him. Get him all worked up on the phone or in texts or however you communicate, get him really looking forward to your next meeting, and then don't show up. And never respond to him again.

The last thing I will say is remember that there's almost certainly going to be a day when you look back and regret doing this...I don't expect telling you that to make you not do it, I just say it as a warning that you don't want to go too far over the top. You don't need to hurt him as much as you want to right now in order to feel like you've gotten back at him.

Ages? You're 18.

But no. NEVER sleep with someone as a manipulation tactic. Not unless you want someone to return that favor.

you should listen to some Melanie Martinez to make you happy girlll

You need to consult a psychiatrist. Your conditions isn't normal. You may be a danger to yourself and people around you.

Learn and live,,,
Move on! Just start putting distance between yourself and him. He doesnt deserve and probably wouldnt hear or may not even listen to any explaination. Just chill and let go.
Success is the best revenge. Succeed at happiness, succeed at having a relationship with yourself and then succeed at having the type of relationship you want with someone that has more of the things that you value.
There will always be better and always be worse people who will come and go in and out of your life. When you learn to recognize this and know happiness and what is acceptable and what isnt for your happiness, these feelings of being used, unhappy and needful of revenge for whatever it is that someone did or didnt do for you will greatly diminish.Let him go, you dont deserve to have to bare your soul or show someone your most vulnerable and deepest emotions. Dont expose yourself like this, dont let him have or see your feelings. Nothing you can do to make him pay, will be worth the price you have to pay and will only expose yourself for greater injury to your own self being, pride. Anything positive to gain from caving into your negative emotions and playing thru with your thoughts , plots and fantasy of making him pay, would be the hard learned lesson of all the embarrasment , shame and self loathing that you will later regret. Some lessons are hard learned and come at a high price. I HOPE AND PRAY THAT YOU CAN COMPREHEND AND HEED MY WORDS AND WISDOM! When I was your age I couldnt or wouldnt. I can relate and truly understand. I have been there and done that. I can be grateful for those hard learned , high price paid lessons for this wisdom that I can freely relate to you. I dont know you, but I love you for being a human feeling person and wish you much success in your life, hopefully it doesnt cost you the wasted time in your life to gain this wisdom.
ONCE AGAIN SLOWLY CHILL AND MAKE DISTANCE AWAY FROM THIS DUDE, NO EXPLAINATION JUST GETAWAY, YOU ARE WASTING TOO MUCH OF YOUR OWNSELF WHEN YOU SHOULD BE AND COULD BE DOING BETTER WITH YOUR TIME AND YOUR LIFE!
Thank you, for sharing your experience, you are ok and probably normal!

Instead I investing time into this elaborate scheme to get revenge for your hurt feelings why don't you put on that sexy outfit for a guy that deserves it instead of wasting your time with a guy that treats you like a fuck toy? Honestly only women think like that. He's hurt me so in gunna fuck him one last time. Except it's never the last time.

What he's doing isn't right but by being a vindictive bitch your not only inviting bad things to happen to you, but any other guy actually worth your time that finds this out is gunna not want you.

Have you discussed your feelings with him?
I think talking would be a good start. I feel like teasing and then saying he will never touch you is abit contradictory, and not the best revenge.

You're right. All guys are pigs. Shouldn't give anyone the benefit of the doubt, they're all disgusting.

I would definitely sleep with him one last time just because good sex you know? Maybe drop little hints while ur in bed like "oh I'm going to miss this" *fuck him harder before he can think about what you said* play with his head a little and enjoy yourself one last time. Then just leave. Don't tell him you're going to. Leave him a note. Move on with your life but he will always remember you that way so win win for you.

I think it's best NOT to do it in the case that this guy will become violent and take what he wants regardless.