Should i marry him or step away ?

Don't marry him, honey! Dump him, or at least gradually distance yourself from him. I highly recommend that you fly solo and concentrate on working on and for yourself for at least a year! If there's one thing this guy has proven it's that he's inconsistent. I think his initial stunt of moving out of ya'll first place with no communication except for a note is beyond a cowardly dickless move. Do you want to marry a man who might run out on you without a word when you're expecting his child or who might run out on you and the children?

You can forgive him, but don't forget! Forgiveness doesn't need to mean reconciliation. The only time forgiveness means reconciliation is when it's between one and God, because let's face it God has much broader shoulders than any of us. If you forgive this guy do it for your own peace of mind and serenity, not for any other reason or reasons. I myself am Roman Catholic, but I want to make it clear that it doesn't matter if you're Catholic, Protestant, any other religion, agnostic, atheist or a combination thereof YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER than what this guy has given you, or rather neglected to give you.

I'm sorry honey, but that fish is bad so throw it back. Please love and respect yourself!

That's not a great history... the impulsive and selfish thing of just packing up and leaving you alone really worries me. Especially after only a few months of first moving in. It doesn't say much for his commitment or his opinion of you, at that time.
Yes, people can change. And sure, give him a chance to change. But don't marry him. Not yet.

There's a saying that if something happens twice, it's sure to happen a third time. Of course that's not always true, but is it worth making such a huge commitment as marriage, when he has left you (at the drop of a hat) twice already?

I don't think so. And besides, what's the rush? If he's changed, great! You'll have plenty of time to live together, re-establish trust and a new phase in your relationship without getting married. There's just no reason to do it yet.

Also - how do you know for sure that you're aware of everything going on with him? ie. Could there be reasons you're not aware of, (but should be), that relate to his past behaviour?
Good luck whatever you decide... but I don't think you should decide anything for a long time.

Thanks everyone! I've been over thinking about everything! I guess you can say it's hard when your in love. I read all the comments and I'm still just trying to figure out how I can let him go. Don't get me wrong I tried many times but everytime he comes to my work or somehow finds me . The thing is I never felt this way about anyone. That's why I always take him back. Maybe it's my fear of seeing him with someone else. The thought of bein hurt again. Or maybe the thought of being alone. Can it be that he's younger then me . He's 22 and me 26? I keep asking him over and over again is this what u want and his answer is always the same .

Oops i fell a sleep.

Stop being a yo-yo and get rid of that waste of space.

Forget marriage. Turn him into a fuck buddy.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yADrtfAmLTo

Wow

Find someone else. Don't marry him

Depends on your hair color, what is your hair color?

Do not marry him!!