Should i lose it this way

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I have been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time now but I have never even kissed anyone or held hands even. Well a boy I know said yesterday he is willing to sort of.

He said he will do it but only if it's anal becaise his reasons were pregnancy. He said he doesn't want to get an ugly girl pregnant.

Keep in mind he seems like he is being sincere and he said I can't tell anyone ever.

So I know its not great but it might be my only chance ever. Oh yeah I also can't kiss him.

Should I do this? Don't hate me, I know its kinda wrong but I really wanna try sex. I'm female so please no gay jokes this is serious.

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Based on 15 votes (5 yes)
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  • Maid_in_Pink
    5 years ago

    Hun...there is no reason to be like this. Everyone is beautiful and there is someone for everyone. Take your time and don't force it and definitely not like that. Honestly, if he actually said you were ugly and didn't want to get your pregnant you should have just punched him in the dick right there.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I appreciate that but odds are it might be my only offer in years or decades or ever.

      He said he didn't want any ugly babies running around, not so blatant i guess.

      I dunno. It's easy to say it's not ideal and wait but reality smacks me in the head and says take what you can get ya know.

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      • Maid_in_Pink
        5 years ago

        The only thing that might be better about that is that maybe he was slamming his own looks and trying to make light of things.

        I know I'm a bit...um...kinkier than most and I have a...unique perspective on things that most don't. But I know that I would take a dog over things like that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Thats terrible.

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  • Cesar91
    5 years ago

    Tell him to use a condom, there will be no more problem with him doing your pussy...

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  • buddyroowho
    5 years ago

    You don't lose your virginity by having anal

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  • TheMightyOz
    5 years ago

    I am sexually challenged like you, and I know the quiet desperation and pain of being unable to have sex. This guy's offer sounds reasonable. Except, you should buy a box of condoms. Encourage him to wear a condom and give you vaginal sex. A condom should always be worn for anal sex regardless.

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