Should i lie and say i’m a virgin to break things off?

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I have been seeing this girl for about a month now. It’s not horrible, but it’s also felt a bit mediocre. The other night she told me she was bipolar, which I understand goes through cycles and can be reasonable when treated, but she informed me she isn’t taking any medication because she doesn’t like how it makes her feel and only “had a couple of manic episodes” This doesn’t sit well with me and I want to break it off before we get serious. I have also been having ED issues so we haven’t had sex, I am thinking of telling her I have been lying and that i’m a virgin and have never been on LTR so she’ll want to stop seeing me rather than me hurting her. Would this work? I know it sounds rather convoluted but she’s told me this is the happiest she’s been with someone in a long time because she can share who she truly is and I don’t want to crush her, i’d Rather have her reject me.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    5 years ago

    That could backfire. She might not care, and then feel flattered that you trust her that much with a secret, and feel like you've both connected after sharing it.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    If you want to break up with her then just tell her that you aren't happy and you don't see a future. There's no point in making up stupid lies. You being a virgin isn't going to make her take the break up any better so I'm not sure why you'd bother telling her this?

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Dont tell her youre a virgin just tell her you arent VERY experienced. Telling her youre a virgin wont accomplish anything and you might make her feel sorry for you. Just fuck her dude. Get her to suck on it first and if it doesnt come up tell her youre nervous.

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    she might stay bcoz youve had experience

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      What? I’m claiming that I don’t have any experience...

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      • SKDM007
        5 years ago

        but youve had sex so that still counts for something

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          We haven’t had sex with one another...

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          • SKDM007
            5 years ago

            thats not what im trying to say...you have had sex b4 so she will think you know what youre doing

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              Yeah, I am thinking of telling her this before we have sex though.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    She's probably not going to reject you dude. Just tell her the truth and be done.

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