Should i keep trying

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I have been with my wife for 5 and we just got married 7months ago.about 1 ago i lost my job and became very stressed and was hard on my kids and was always accusing her of cheating after she kissed a guy.well for the past 8 months i have changed 100% cause i found another job.well fof the last 5 months she has been under alot of stress cause of me.her kids her parents.she said shes not happy here anymore and fell out of love and wants a divorce.i have been begging her back and she shuts me down.well yesterday her stress got si bad she got nerve damage in her eye.i confort hef everyday.helping more with chores and kids.i bouught her sum scented bath oils relax.she gets naked in front og me still and lets me look at her.i try to sleep on couch. but she tells to sleep in same bed.but puts pillow between us.i try to be itimatd with her but she doesnt get mad but asks what am i dojng.for the past couple of days she has called me babe but catchz herself and says sorry.so is she coming around. and should i give her more space

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    This reminds me a bit of when me and bf broke up. He was being a total asshole, and I got so stressed out and sick of him! But we didn't really let go of eachother. We agreed not to see anyone else, we still hung out. It was bizarre and hard for me to understand at the time. But in the end, he was so nice to me, and so much less of an asshole, I took him back. When I read that she insists you sleep in the same bed, and doesn't exactly say no to sexual things, it reminded me of how me and my bf were. I think you're winning her over. Keep trying I say. I think things will be okay. Best thing that worked for me was time apart. Time for us to miss eachother and cool off. You should try and instill a no seeing other people thing (since i'm sure she doesn't want you finding someone else either) And maybe give her a few days to herself in a hotel or something

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  • Juicedrink
    11 years ago

    keep trying

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    You already posted this.

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