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There's this guy and he is the nices sweetest person I've ever met , he so respectful, well I have a huge crush on him and he knows but he said that im beautiful but that we don't connect
And I dnt understand how we don't connect
Move on, if he doesn't return the feelings that you have for him than just find someone that you like and likes you back.
Oh geez, this sounds familiar haha, I knew a guy EXACTLY like this. He was sweet, respective, handsome, and irresistible...at first. We knew each other in school, and we always got along, he did alot of nice things for me, we flirted shamelessly and i felt as though he really liked me...one problem though, he had a girlfriend. After we graduated we sort of fell apart. But one day we got back in touch and started talking again, alot. He told me that his gf broke up with him, and I thought this was my chance to get to be with him. He told me that he wanted to take the single life for awhile and "just be friends" ugh, cause he knew i liked him. I respected his wishes but still asked if he wanted to hang out sometime. It was like pulling teeth to try and get together with him. But see the whole time he would not stop flirting with me and playing with my head, calling me beautiful,sexy, and texting me non-stop! I was in complete confusion! He actually told me he didnt want to be with "me". I thought he liked me. I was trying to figure him out, though it was really difficult. I got some advice my sisters and friends, and they told me to confront him or drop him and try to forget about him, cause this guy was a player, and i didnt see it at first, I was so blind. In the end, i wanted to confront him and just tell him how i really felt about all this and wanted to know why he played games so much. He made so many excuses about not wanting to meet with me. I know i probably scared him off but he didnt make it any easier with all the flirtation he gave me. I guess i thought that i still might have had a chance with him...guess not! lol. And like you and your guy, I thought this guy and I connected. He turned out to be a complete jerk and had no respect for me whatsoever, so i dropped him from my life. I know thats alot I wrote but I hope it helped?
It was a lesson learned, so now I wont be stupid enough to fall for a guy like that. It turned out that he just wanted to keep me on his "leash" and add me to a collection, I dont know why I didnt see it before, I guess i was just lost in lust. Just on question, does this guy flirt constantly with you?
The same thing happened to me except with a girl. He ether 1) Just wants to be friends or 2) wants something more than a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
I could be wrong.
Me I couldn't stand the thought of not being with her and it was driving me insane. She sucked 4 years out of my life! So I just quit talking to her period. Maybe she did want more than a bf-gf relationship? I guess I'll never know.
I'd wait until you just say "fuck this" and move on. You'll know when it happens!
You really don't have to know why. The fact is that he said you don't. That's the most important thing to know. You don't. Think of "connection" as something akin to attraction/chemistry. You could have it with him, you think.....but the problem is he doesn't have it with you. Period. End of story. MOVE ON!!!
At least you know some of the things you like about guys - and those are nice things to like. He's just being honest with you. Disappointing he doesn't feel the same way, but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. And he's not the only fish in the sea ...
He is not sexually attracted to you.
That is such a common line lol.
Don't waste your time find a new boy.
He's just not that into you.