Should i just give in and lose my virginity?

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So I am 23 years old and still a virgin. I haven't been in a relationship in a while, so no real chances of having sex have come up. I don't mind not being in a relationship, but the problem is I have been having really strong urges for quite some time, now. I used to be able to take care of it myself ;P but I am really losing it, now. I feel like I need to have sex and to be honest, I don't care too much about who it would be with. I mean I care enough to not just hook up with some rando, but I'm thinking some friend or even friend of a friends. Lol. Should I give in to these urges, which are really strong by the way, and just lose my virginity? Would that be weird? Lol.

Go for it. 57
No, don't do it. 36
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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Go for it.

    Start a Friends with Benefits (FWB) with a friendly aqquaintance who wants the same arrangement: https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-hms-tmobile-us&ei=rsHLV8S7GcS7eZLgubgB&q=how+to+start+friends+with+benefits&oq=how+to+stattfriends+with+benefits&gs_l=mobile-gws-serp.1.0.0i13k1l2j0i8i13i30k1.3670.7010.0.9134.12.12.0.0.0.0.297.2442.0j5j7.12.0....0...1c.1j4.64.mobile-gws-serp..5.7.1629...0i7i30k1.hMCI19-1jJY

    If you do decide to do this, just remember that it's not a relationship. Neither of you will be exclusive to eachother, and are free to have casual sex with other people. You dont need to see her/him everyday or speak to each other all the time. This way you can have sex, practice, and gain sexual experience safely without the pressure of a relationship. Just be sure she/he is on the same page as you.

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    • Tiffany2012
      7 years ago

      FWB is great. I have a couple FWBs that I have had for several years, and it works out great.

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  • Holzman_67
    7 years ago

    Well it sounds like you're ready and the fact you're not just going to throw it away to some random means you're not desperate and you're still being level headed about it. I hope it eventuates for you and you enjoy the experience.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    You obviously want it so go for it dude.

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  • Rajbabu
    7 years ago

    Please dont miss it. You dont know what u feel when ur partner touch ur genital and touch it with tongue. Enjoying eex in young age is always hot. Enjoy oral sex. I love it when I lick my gf's whole body. Her smell specially smell of her private parts turns me on. When I lick her asshole and pussy I feel just crazy.

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  • RoyRogers
    7 years ago

    Im 23 too and I am a virgin but I dont feel the need to lose it. If its bothering you so badly, you could try buying a hooker, just make sure its not a cop in disguise trying to bust people paying for hookers.

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  • TurtleBurger
    7 years ago

    Just do it, the longer you deprive yourself, the more you miss out on. You're young, you're supposed to be experiencing new things and learning, do you want to meet the girl of your dreams and end up being really shit in bed with her because you don't have any practice?

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  • dick555
    7 years ago

    Sex can be and is great. Enjoy the pleasure of two people having the best time of their lives.

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  • Absolut
    7 years ago

    Everyone is fucking someone these days, so if there's maybe a guilt factor behind it or some sort of morals, those don't matter anymore. It's 2016, even 12 year olds are getting laid and having kids.

    Go for it.

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