Should i help this girl? how?
K so basically I met this girl on tinder at my college and we planned on being "cuddle buddies" but she seemed super desperate and so slowly got more sexual after meeting a few times. About 2 or 3 weeks in when the furthest we had gotten was me sucking her tits, she opened up to me over text and said she had been molested multiple times by her dad growing up and she had severe depression and was on a ton of meds, had atempted suicide recently and all this.
Basically I thought we were just casual buds but she opened way up and basically she is an emotional wreck. She apologized for dumping that on me even though I insisted that I didn't mind and she has often told me how much she enjoys seeing me.
Now the issue is, I SWEAR she likes me and wants a more serious relationship but she is shy to ask me because she knows I do other casual sex and all this. So I see her almost everyday, I stay the night with her probably like twice a week and we cuddle and do sexual stuff all the time and we text back and forth for hours.
So I feel bad for her but at the same time I am not obligated to be in a commited relationship with her. I really don't want to ignore her totally though because she is sexy, good in bed and we can meet very often so there's a lot of benefit I'm getting out if this as well.
So what advice do you have for me? What should I tell her? How can I put her off and tell her how I feel without making it harder on her?