Should i go full transgender or not?

Ive always felt like a man trapped inside a womans body. There are times when I am disgusted by my boobs and dont feel happy... Then I put on punk dresses and skirts and feel great and think, i love my body! Im so confused. I feel like a man with a fem side or rather right now, a woman with a masculine side. IIN?

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Based on 29 votes (12 yes)
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  • _Mehhh_

    It's very common and normal to feel that you are an "inbetween" gender who fluctuates back and forth between male and female, or constantly feels in-between.

    I suggest you familiarise yourself with the genderqueer community. From what you say, it sounds like you could find some people you have stuff in common with there and maybe clear your mind up.

    Also, detatch gender identity from gender presentation. You can like dresses, drag, make-up, long hair etc and still identify fully as a man, albeit an effeminate one.

    However, if you're having ANY doubts whatsoever, I strongly advise against transitioning fully into a man. It's too drastic and with potentially permanent/irreversible changes to your body, to do while having doubts.

    Hope this helps x

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    • It does help... Thanks

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    • sandnigga

      its not normal

      its a toxic attack on your brain from the chemicals all around us

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  • Birdprince

    if it makes you happy and more comfortable with your body, do it. of course it is a big decision and you need to be 100% certain that you want this and wont regret it in the future

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  • Thorolf

    You don't "Go transgender" either you're nonbinary or you're not. But if you're looking to feel like the gender you are inside, then I say go for it.

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  • Pixiepowers

    Google different gender identities! Trust me there's lots more than just cisgender or transgender and you might find one that fits you perfectly!

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  • Holzman_67

    what happened to just being a tomboy?

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    • mysistersshadow

      Being trans seems to be the new cool thing.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Trans ppl confuse me. I just can't wrap my mind around how ppl can feel the way trans ppl say they feel.

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    • Put_name_here

      My mind can't even fathom how any man could prefer men to women. But they do so um some can do it. I've had gays like me before. One of them would be a cool girlfriend if he was born a woman, and not too bony of a woman either, you know how some female faces or bodies look too male?

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      • mysistersshadow

        Sorry I couldn't make sense of your reply.

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  • Roustabout

    Fact 300: A hummingbird is actually bigger than a grizzly bear. On a metaphysical level. Deal with it.

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  • walkingdildo

    You can't "go" transgender. You are transgender or you are not, and if the former then you may or may not go for therapy to see if surgery is right for you.

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    • I guess Im just really unsure of what I am

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      • walkingdildo

        In the proverbial words of the dance group Olive, "you're not alone".

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  • sandnigga

    Hormones are messing with your brain.

    Try to stay away from BPA. If you dont know what that is look it up.

    It's fake estrogen. Its messing with your brain. We have a toxic environment.

    Ask yourself why other countries dont have as big of a transgender problem as other countries?
    Its because other countries environment arent as messed up as the united states.

    See without even knowing where you live, I bet you live in the united states.

    They're poisoning us. Food, water, chemicals, vaccines, ect.

    Stay away from BPA. I dont want you feeling like that :)
    I want you to feel like a girl~

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    • chad.9087

      O_o

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      • sandnigga

        you the op?

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        • chad.9087

          Huh?

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          • sandnigga

            the original poster? = op

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