Should i go for it? is it a good idea?

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Let me explain the situation.

I'm not very good with the ladies, that's a fact. But recently I've been talking to this girl and we're getting on really well. She told me she likes me and I think I like her too. Only problem being I've never met her in person.

In about a week's time I'm meeting her and if I like her, I'm considering asking her out, do you think it's a good idea? Should I wait?

Additonal: We do live reasonably close, I wouldn't call it a long distance relationship, we're about the same age and we have a LOT in common.

I don't really know what you should do. 7
Don't do it! it's foolish! (Add a comment) 15
Do what you feel is right. 43
Go for it! If you like eachother nothing should stop you. 80
Other (Add a comment) 8
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  • Jeci_Cassidy
    13 years ago

    well you better hope her picture is the same as her. My cousin met this really pretty girl online and he was interested in her, so they traded numbers and she kept sending him the same pictures, well he thought maybe she's just camera shy. well lets just say the 5'6" 120lb beauty queen turned out to be a 4'9" 220lb redneck bitch with 6 kids under the age of 5. I hope that don't happen to you.

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    • norcalbuddha
      13 years ago

      sweet response!

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      • Jeci_Cassidy
        13 years ago

        lol thank you

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  • red_star
    13 years ago

    yeah! do it! I met my husband because he called me by mistake... we talked for 3 months over the phone before we met- and now we've been happily married for 2 years :)

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  • Treynine
    13 years ago

    Considering you live close makes it good just be prepared for anything and I do mean ANYTHING

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  • silentnachos
    13 years ago

    Go see her, spend time together, then you decide if you really like her. You can always have a date to see what type of a person she really is.

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  • supaflyafro
    12 years ago

    lets put it like this. if you dont ask her out then you will never ever ever EVER EVER be her boyfriend

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    I think you left out a word. "if I like her (looks) I'm considering asking her out."

    It seems you already like her.

    Ask her out. It's not a marriage proposal. It's a date. If it goes badly, don't go out again.

    It's as simple as that.

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  • yourfuckinghero
    12 years ago

    Go for it. There's a chance that she's not a perfect 10, but it's probably pretty unlikely that you are either. (No offense intended) plus relationships take practice, so even if it doesn't work you'll have learned something and hopefully you will be able to improve your sexual technique some.

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  • getmein1
    12 years ago

    you never known whats behind the story. if you happened to this situation then u should keep going and see what will happen. you will never be able to learn how to swim till u get urself into water and start of swimming. go for it.

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  • WillIEverBeReborn
    12 years ago

    this reminds menof a book called "train man" it's a pretty good book for relationship tips and stuff

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  • rockhead
    13 years ago

    you'll only knw if you wanna ask her out again or not after youve met with her dude. i say, go meet her and find out how you lyk her

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  • Mistletain
    13 years ago

    i'm actually about to meet a girl in Thailand that Ive know for 4 years and Ive never met in person. so if i am going to do that you better.

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  • spankymonkey
    13 years ago

    Meet her, have sex with her at the earliest opportunity, and then re-assess your situation as to whether to continue seeing her. You'll be able to think more clearly with your sack emptied.

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  • kvimik
    13 years ago

    she(or maybe he) could be a pedofile :O

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I hope it goes well as for me I have done it. Its sometimes good sometimes bad.

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  • smitty217
    13 years ago

    GO FOR IT!!!!!

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  • caizerinlive
    13 years ago

    Do you really like her? Or is it just rumors of the hotest girl on the show?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      I really do like her, she's really interesting and seems to be genuine. We just get on really well and if she's the same in person as behind a computer, I'd like something more.

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  • ALLoftheabove
    13 years ago

    Wait untill u meet her in person

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