Should i go for it and ask her out?

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So here's the situation. I'm at college and there's this girl on my class Diane, she is basically my perfect type of girl.

I flirt with her and I think!!! She knows I like her and I think there's a chance she may like me too.

Our class are having a night out to play pool tomorrow and she's gonna be there, should I pull her aside and tell her I like her and want her to be my girlfriend or leave it?

If you think I should tell her can you please explain what you think the eat way to do it is.

Thanks in advance

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    What are you 12 "Hey be my gf!". Ask her out on a date first and take it from there you goof. It's like your marrying her. God damn! why are kids becoming such wimps these days!?

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  • iknowimweird
    11 years ago

    I think you're unprepared or inexperienced especially since you say you're in college. You don't just pull a girl aside and ask if they want to be your girlfriend. Get to know her, find a good friendship and lean it towards a loving friendship. Then go out, have fun. And when you both can tell you like eachother, go for it.

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    • Millie_the_evil_saint
      11 years ago

      Why not? Isn't it every girl's dream to get a romantic confession from the guy she likes?

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I think you should use this pool outing to get to know her better, then maybe if the night goes well, then pull her aside and ask her out on a date.

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  • oysterbay
    11 years ago

    Ask her to be your boyfriend, why not? If she says no laugh it off and tease her a bit in future and ask her out again.

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  • Isabella80s
    11 years ago

    Don't make too big a deal out of it - you don't want to make her feel put on the spot. When you find the right time, you could say something like, "It'd be really great to spend some time with you, how do you feel about going to see a film/going for dinner/going for a walk?" Whichever one is realistic for you. Keep it simple but make it clear that you'd like to go on a date and get to know her better. If she says no, then at least you tried and the initial disappointment will go. And lastly, if she says yes - treat her like a lady and listen to what she has to say - be interested and responsive. That way, the second date might be in the bag too.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Dude, life is short so live it up whilst you can. But, please please please try and play it cool. Don't ask a college girl to be your gf straight of the bat! That's middle school shit. Just flirt with her, ask for her number, or ask to hang out some other time, just play it cool goddamn it. You have much to learn young padawan.

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  • mikethebike
    11 years ago

    If you don't ask you'll never know ... and what have you got to loose? - perhaps your virginity! GO FOR IT!!

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Touch her butt. I'll do it if you want.

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    • RapidlyRotatingPanda
      11 years ago

      Sage wisdom as always...

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago

        :p

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  • Millie_the_evil_saint
    11 years ago

    Do it in private. It's too much pressure on the girl if there are other people watching when you confess to her.

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  • ANDYTREK247
    11 years ago

    Asks her out on a date to the movies or the ice rink or mega bowls all three are a good place to take a first date.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    No don't forever hold your piece.

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  • DonnieLighto
    11 years ago

    Go to the get-together, but you should wear a diaper and proclaim "I thought you said play POO, not pool!". She'll dig it.

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    • Millie_the_evil_saint
      11 years ago

      No, she won't... (at least the probability of her "digging it" is close to zero...do you even know such a girl???)

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    Your asking because there is the foreboding sense of misery and despair if she turns you down. if you really get the feeling that she likes you too; sometimes our instincts steer us on the right path. But your in college, your talking about her as if you are falling in love with her. Thats dangerous territory, your in college

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    Just ask her out to dinner or something sometime

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