Should i go?

I think it could be exciting for you to go to America and meet this girl. I voted GO! With the thought in mind that we waste our lives doing such boring things. Just go, and if she's not the girl you thought she was, then header back to England, with an interesting story to tell people, and a new experience under your belt.

Does she got cigarettes?

Oh the irony. I assume this is an online relationship, right? If this question was "IIN to have an online relationship?", I'm sure it would have gotten way better responses, somehow. People seem to act like this isn't the same thing, just with a possibility of meeting. Anyway, this is a very normal feeling but we don't know how long you've known this person, if you've video chatted, things like that. If you have and you really feel comfortable enough to do this, you KNOW its safe and nothing has tipped you off that this person could have issues, then sure! Maybe bring someone you know along though for safety insurance. Some people still think you can't end up loving someone online, it can and does happen. I just hope it didn't happen on an online dating site, I don't trust those.

Try a visit first, but good luck

Should I stay or should u go now

Have you ever video chatted with her? Or have some other proof that she is who she says she is?

Go for it.

You only live once right.

Don't let anyone tell you what to do.

Take a risk.

Be a winner at the game of life.

You love each other....anddd you've never met. Right. Kids these days. Dude, if you want to go spend £500 on a flight to the US, accommodation, food, travel etc, not to mention convincing your parents and her parents, go right ahead. But seriously, it's just a girl, there are millions of them over here that you don't have to take an international flight to woo. I know they're not that attractive, but there's some real corkers out there!

Have you seen the film catfish? could be relevant

If you're a wealthy gamblerthen go for it.Just make sure you don't bitch and moan if it does'nt work out and you get ripped off.

Sure, you get a holiday from it.

What on Earth holding you back?